To: SlapHappy, Moderator
Latest email from Melody aka Lia 19, follows along with IP check showing it originated in Accra, Ghana:
Thu, February 16, 2012
From: Melody Morrison <email@example.com>
To: removed personal details
My love, I can not stand this. It is just too hard to be away from you. I am usually okay, but at times like this (especially at night) it just becomes too much to bear. I can not sleep tonight from thinking of you. I never understand why things in my life choose to be this way.
I just have to tell you, Jim, to share with you that sacred part of my inner, secret life, the thoughts I think that everyone has but does not always say. I know that sometimes pride gets in the way of expressing emotions. I believe that is the cause of my reticence in telling you how I feel sometimes, that and the fact that passion in an extreme state can be scary, you almost just want to shut it away for fear that it will eventually destroy you. I think of my feelings, my love for you not with craving or with hope or even desire, but just with a kind of wonder that such things could be. You have opened my eyes to how love should feel. I can promise you this, I will never again settle for less.
But, at this time in both of our lives, we are surrounded by possibilities of choice, open doors and wide horizons, which I know, may come between us. But I also know and hope that they could eventually bring us together, with both of us being better people for the time we spent apart. And so for now I function between maybe and maybe not. It's a strange mixture of love and sex and sorrow and hope and longing and faith. And even though you are far away, you're all that I can see, I carry you with me through all my days and I miss you more than I can say. Also, Jim, remember this - I love you no less than if you were right here now. My sorry end sad but it's the end of me. I am still alive with with possibilities to make my dreams.
I know I have a tendency to be impetuous at times - thus the reason for this letter. I think I will mail it now, before I consider what you might think of it. I love you and am waiting for the day when I can feel your arms around me with great pleasures. Love always, Melody
ALL THE ABOVE IS A DIRECT QUOTE WITH MY NAME INSERTED OF A LETTER ON: POEMSLOVERS.COM. THE FOLLOWING POORLY WORDED AND SPELLED SENTENCE CAN BE ATTRIBUTED TO HER:
No you the truth about me and I appreciate it if you can be open up with me. Tell me you interest in me and will not west more time at all. Take care.
THIS IS THE IP ANALYSIS OF THE ABOVE EMAIL AND ALL
THE EMAILS I'VE RECEIVED FROM HER.
Email header analysis report All valid IP Addresses found in the header.
Ip Address 3rd Party Info
* 184.108.40.206 Ghana Telecom Accra Ghana
From: Melody Morrison <firstname.lastname@example.org>
Originating Email address: email@example.com
Date Sent: Thu, 16 Feb 2012 05:01:33 -0800 (PST) or 1:01pm, Ghana time
Receiver IP Info: 220.127.116.11 Yahoo! Sunnyvale United States
18.104.22.168 Yahoo! Sunnyvale United States
Following is the First Email I received from her back on 9 Nov. This is also when she admits she is in Ghana, not in Massachustts as was listed on her dating site profile.
From: Melody Morrison <firstname.lastname@example.org> removed personal details
It is pleasure meeting you here. I never expected I could come across someone like you on here. I liked almost everything about your profile. Well, sorry I couldn't respond early enough. I am a busy lady who works as a private journalist. I have been doing this work for a year now. I was a beautician before I jumped into this new job.I just got back from work since I work from the morning 7AM to 3PM my time. Hope you are away of my location. I am 36 years old, single never been married and have no kids and I am also from Ghana. I noticed my location showed different place on the site but I am no more a member on the site since I closed my subscription knowing all the men on there are just there to make fun of women. I have had bad experiences on that site. I joined that site not long ago about three days now. It was been introduced to me by a friend of mine who has done it and she is happily married with kids now. I also decided to give it a try but found no good luck. All the men I met on there seems to like nothing but just to see my nudity which I don't like. I proved them wrong and made them understood that I didn't join because I wanted to show off my nudity. I closed my account because I don't need it anymore. You are the last person I could send an email to since I liked your profile and found it interesting. Hope you don't mind the distance between us. I know most men from the states who also never wanted to take the risk of getting to know someone who was living so far away. You seem to be an interesting man and I liked almost everything you said about yourself. I also want you to know that distance doesn't matter if you really love the person, what matters most is your honesty and trust for that relationship to work out.Without romance, love gets dry. Without respect, love gets lost. Without caring, love gets boring.
Also, I live here with my mother alone since I am the only daughter to my parents. I lost my father when I was 22 years old. I have learnt so many things in my past. Glad to have a mother who is now living with me. I have been in a relationship which ended me no good. I was found in love with a man whom I loved and dedicated all my heart and soul to but he betrayed me this is why I joined the site to see if I could find someone to share my world with. I have been hurt so many times by mean lying men who just wanted nothing out of me. Well, I consider that as life since there are good and bad things to experience in life. I come from a well known family here in Ghana and I am well educated and was brought up from a good christian family. I do have my PhD doctoral in Journalism and Master's in Economics. I have always looked for a man of my equal but it is so hard to find one and I can understand life by just knowing nothing comes up easily. It is very good to know you have great respect for women, I also have great respect for great men.
I love poetry, books, walks on the beach and cozy candlelight dinners. I enjoy movies, television, music, traveling, the desert, the quietness of the mountains, the ocean, sunrises and sunsets. I am comfortable in jeans or a nice English suit. A nonsmoker/drinker, not into drugs (don't need them; I live in a natural high). I believe in enjoying the good life and am high on it. I have a healthy attitude about God and the Bible.
I'm a very outgoing person, who loves to dine out travel and enjoy the simple life. I'm a hopeless romantic and very affectionate. I have a good sense of humor and I like to make you laugh. I like to chill out with a good book or watch and movie and its even more fun when you have a special someone to do this with.. I'm very easy to get a long with and a very good listener..I love To share My Time with People I Love and care eg ,friends and Family.well about my family i come from a very small unit Of Family My Mother,and I, I am an honest heart that's looking for a stable relationship. I understand it is important to lay down lasting foundations for a lasting relationship.
I am an active person who enjoys cycling and running best. I believe keeping fit is important. I am not interested in games or drama. I enjoy fine dining and am always looking for someone to share the appreciation of good food and fine wine. I am just as comfortable with my self up in old jeans. I love to dance: All styles, disco, house, or swing.I like getting out and checking out local talent and live concerts, here or anywhere. I enjoy movies and music for relaxation. A quiet night at home is also enjoyed and welcomed. I am open to try different activities and up for the challenge. I love spontaneity and being a bit impulsive. I am continually attempting to function from the inside out and to go with my intuitive impulses, because sometimes the spontaneous actions are the most fun, not expected and purely delightful..
I generally try to live a somewhat healthy lifestyle, exercising and some sort of jogging, 3-4 days a week and eating healthy, (trust me, I love sweets and pastries, but try not to over do it).. I would also like to find a like-minded male where we can participate in activities together and encourage each other to pursue their interests as well. I have several hobbies (and wish I could find more time to pursue those) such as swimming, playing computer, dancing, and reading, and more,and would like someone to share that with, as well as their sharing their interests with me...
I do not expect a man to be a servant to me, spending all his time working and and cleaning; I believe there is give and take in a relationship, and I realize that at times it's more convenient for me to do laundry, cook, clean, and I have no problem doing that. I consider myself to be a fairly honest and truthful person and expect the same in return; I'm not wealthy and don't expect someone to attempt to deceive me or "play" me. I believe that time spent apart helps keep things fresh in a relationship and makes the time we DO spend together even better. I'm not one who cheats in a relationship; one man is enough trouble ; I don't have the time or energy to juggle 2, 3, or 4 at the same time - ha ha.
I am generally an optimistic person with a sense of humor, fairly easy-going, and I don't think that I'm too critical about things, but I also believe that it takes two people contributing to a relationship to make it work.
As I mentioned earlier, I like to do things with the other significant person in my life, but I also encourage him to go out and spend time with friends and pursue her own interests and hobbies as well.As you can tell, I am not a bs'er and believe in total communication. Not that we can do that all the time, but ultimately we can get the feelings out without too much delay, I hope.
I believe in getting to know my partner and communication seems to be the best way to do this. I am adventurous. love to see new places and experience new things. I will always have the little kid in me ,even though I am very responsible !! love to play,I am on the computer getting into it more and more!!! dancing is important to me I want so badly to get better at it !!It is such a positive way of having fun and expressing yourself,and you get to show your man to the world on the dance floor like a beautiful flower equal partnership takes to to tango ,compromise ,communication is so important!!I will always be who I am at the core my soul my being who I am and what makes me ,Butt!!! I am chuck full of potential I actually can be taught ! LOL ! woman need to be like a guiding light for men we sometimes have a tendency to miss the little things ,not on purpose.woman and a man should work as a team together ,I cook ,clean,dust ,and do laundry.
Well, I could use the whole paper to write more about myself so I will like to end this for now and will look forward to hearing from you once again. I would want so much to know more about you too so that we can see where this leads us if only you would want to take the chance of taking the risk with the distance. Thank you very much for being so nice and sincere to me. I really do appreciate your good communication skills and I enjoy every single words you wrote to me. I have more to say but not until I read from you once again. I like to write emails because it is fun to me. I will also make sure I respond to your immediately the next time. I have also attach three pictures for you as well. Have a wonderful day and stay blessed.
Your New Friend,
Those were the first and latest emails I've received from her, plus the IP address info.