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[Marisa]

I am going by what you said yourself.

[baddog]

I used the word "meet"; "check out" and "merchandise" are your words not mine.
Just because a number of women want to meet me, does not make me a sextourist!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Arabian Nights]

mmm well hello
It seems that there is some nit picking going on
The statement by Marisa was not a quote BUT

this sounds like

and when one is going to look at many ladies it surely does seem like one is shopping and you also seem to be very defensive about your trip
What a shame that it appears this way
If you are looking for love we hope you have done your homework first
If you are going for SEX then play it safe and use protection
Although it is sad to know that many western men attend this country for the purpose of sex even with minors, this is a very sad approach and use of human life
Be safe and be well

[The Wild Geese]

To you baddog!
You are no better than a scammer yourself! Collect and select attitude? Poor Asian ladies! What a pity!

[baddog]

To WildGeese
why don't you close your mouth before your brain falls out of it

[wayne]

Every single Pinay scammer I've ever encountered has come from DIA. Now baddog, your attitude earns you a warning. One more outburst and I WILL ban you from the site. Keep it civil or leave.

[baddog]

"I've got too many women to meet because of this site --The ladies that want to meet me have given me their mobile numbers --so wish me luck and lets see how many scam me when I get there -- I bet very few"
The above taken from my first post has resulted in me being accused of being a sextourist and a scammer myself.
My only intention in my first post was to defend DIA and argue logically (based on my experience) that the majority of women at DIA are NOT scammers.
Wayne --you wrote "Every single Pinay scammer I've ever encountered has come from DIA. Now baddog, your attitude earns you a warning."
Wayne --you are a site moderator and you last post indicates you are blatantly biased against DIA. Instead of challenging the logic in my arguments to defend DIA, you have joined Wild Geese and Marisa in your personal replies. How would any of you react if I called you a sex tourist and a scammer??
You say DIA is a bad site --now I'm wondering about this site --romancescam.com
GO AHEAD AND BAN ME if it means I can get away from this site and it's accusatory, illogical people and their personal and off-topic replies

[FrumpyBB]

I don´t understand your problem. However, your wish can be fulfilled

You can post about DIA what you want as long as it´s based on reason but your behaviour here is intolerable for anyone. Bye.

[wayne]

GO AHEAD AND BAN ME

Ok. As I stated, every single Pinay scammer I've dealt with have come from DIA. That's not bias, it's quoting from experience. Anyway with the banning the matter is closed now.

[Marisa]

For casual readers: very sad that baddog didn't understand why he was really banned. Not because of the good review of DIA. Besides posting a review about the site, he (maybe unwillingly) disclosed his personal methods of using dating sites. That is: writing to many ladies at the same time, then meeting with all of them during the same trip. From women point of view, this is humiliating. This is what ladies call sex-tourism (when it results in a trip) or game players (for local men). Doesn't matter if all women want to meet with a man. Of course they do, why not? They think they met their dream man and have no idea he is talking to many others and plan to meet with them all. That's why WildGeese mentioned "scamming". This is emotional scamming, in a way. Means you are not attached to any of these women, don't really care about any. All success stories we heard were from men who went overseas to meet just one lady of their dream. Those who meet "in bulk" are still out there, single and supposedly looking.

This is why I am saying over and over again: please, don't register on this site and immediately jump to post reviews. Get to know the community first, get to know what grounds we stand here on certain subjects before posting. Please realize that you are on the site full of women, including Asian woman, many were badly hurt in the past. The reaction to your "boy talk" on this site might not be what you expect. Think before you post something about YOURSELF and your ways. The reply to WildGeese just proves one more time that baddog shows no respect for ladies, that's why he got banned. Not because of his good review of the site.

Now, back to the subject of DIA. I am not biased. I must confess, guys: I somewhat disagree with you. Yes, I know you met all pinay scammers on DIA. But that's natural, this site is full of Filipinas! Where else to search for a pinay scammer to bait if not on an Asian site? Of course they all register there. At the same time, being a webmaster myself, I can tell you: when Filipinas register, it is impossible to tell who is a scammer and who is not, and boot them off. It is relatively easy to keep the site free of Nigerian and Russian scam. But with Filipinas and pro-daters it is different. Unless you actually chat with them, or meet in person, there is no way for a dating adminstrator to tell who is who: they are all real, with real pictures. And sure they all register on an Asian site! Thank God I don't have that many pinay registrations on my site, but if I did, I would have a hard time keeping my site scam free, really.

Another thing is how the site reacts to reports of men who DID chat with these pinays. Do they take such reports seriously? Do they boot them off right away?What kind of proof they require? Did you try reporting scammers you met there to admins? What did they do? Like I said, sometimes I find a suspicious registration on my site. I do Google search, find them on DIA, but when I try to look at the profile, it often says that they were booted off for scam. This usually applies to Chinese scammers though, like interlingvo ones. Just trying to be objective.

[The Wild Geese]

I just need to explain my points of view regarding my former post regarding this topic.

First of all thank you Wayne for interfering so that I will not lower my standard to the standard of ill mannered people.

Thank you Marisa for explaining what I really felt because that was exactly what I meant. It really hurts when people take advantage of other less fortunate ones. When I'm in Asia, it makes me feel sick when I see these people, the rejects in their own country (non good looking one, with enormous bellies, young or old, rich or poor) acting as they are somebody. Last summer I even overheard conversations of a group of these tourist in Schiphol airport that they were going to the Phil. to meet Pinays they had been communicating with through internet. They really boast how popular they are! Yes, true it is, they were a group of these collect and select types then dump everybody because there are still many out there. Do they not know how it hurts when one is being dumped because another one is waiting? If they say that they know for sure that the people they are communicating with are decent people, not scammers. Why let this lady hope that at last she found someone, the love of her life?

Decent Asians are conservative. They never tell their true feelings and just hope for serious relationships to develop. They never be the one to propose first but just hope that the person they are communicating with will do it. I think some of these type are also in DIA. Do these people doesn't care how humiliating it is to the girl and her family? Well, well, if you play with ones feelings, then for me, you are no better person at all! When one tells that he/she is sure that they are not communicating with a scammer, then good! They are not scammers then! You, then is the one fooling around innocent people. Shame to people who do this! Well, I think these people who do this, has a sort of limited funds. They will try to get as many hits as they can for just one trip to save them making lots of trip to find the right one. Or maybe not find one at all!

I can understand why these Pinays registers in free dating sites because most of these ladies don't earn as much as we do. An ordinary European or American employee can earn their monthly salary in just an hour. A Pinay waitress or a saleslady earns 1500-3000 pesos a month (US $1= 47pesos.) So most of these poor ladies cant afford to pay the membership fee. As we already know there are scammers all over the world and they can be in free or paid dating sites. But when you know that you are communicating with real people (not a scammer) why make a fool of them? Why? Can you be a person with very low self confidence trying to elevate it up by the feelings that you are popular? Now, the litany is over! Amen from me!

[jasmine1000]

I am unable to find any definition of sextourism matching the one you presented in your last post after he was banned.
Sex tourism is defined in the following ways:
1Travel for the purpose of sexual intercourse with prostitutes.
and
2 tourism with the intention of exploiting permissive or poorly enforced local laws concerning sex, esp sex with children
Where is sextourism defined as meeting more than one woman and not being attached to any of them?
With all due respect this 3rd view appears to be your own unique slant on the subject; if it isn't then why isn't your view included with the other defintions of sextourism in the dictionary?
In all probability badodg reacted badly to the above well known definitions ie prostitition and children etc; hence his remark "sleazy accusations".
Now I see why he referred to you all as accusatory and illogical; your version of sextourism is not widely known in the public domain; it would have been more appropriate to label his actions in a different way while still pointing out your disapproval. Maybe then he could have understood and might have reacted differently and appropriately to your disapproval.

[wayne]

I also find this definition online

“those who travel to a country for the sole purpose of having sex”

and that pretty much describes his post.

Now, I find it more than a coincidence that your first post should be in this thread and the IP locations of both you and baddog are so close together. So much so that I believe you're one and the same person, and as such am disabling this account.

[Arabian Nights]

Wayne
Thankyou for that
I was starting to feel like i was one of the meat products in the meat house, just to be pawed over without any regard to the human side of me as a female

With all due respect this 3rd view appears to be your own unique slant on the subject;

this IS NOT A UNIQUE VIEW
All / Most women have this thought

Your regard to women is VERY poor and inexcusable..................
So baddog ATA jasmine1000 don't let the door hit you in the arse as you go ....AH

[Pete]

Very little has changed at Dateinasia since I first posted about them, here.
It is true they are a LITTLE faster to remove some reported profiles. I still can't figure out the 'formula' they use to remove profiles? I can only guess it takes an unknown magic number of reports from members before they remove a profile.
That said, there are some profiles of known, notorious scammers that remain untouched.

They also do not review the profile content well, or maybe not at all?

It's very common to browse profiles there, and see women openly asking for financial support, or stating ages that are in violation of the terms of service of the site. (They register with an age of 18 or over, but state 'I'm really 12,13,14', etc, in the profile text.) I don't think you need to have much of a command of english to catch this, if you bother to look.

I can still log into DIA at almost any time, and have Filipinas contact me, asking for money within a few minutes.

I don't look for them. I don't have to. They pounce on any middle aged male profile from a western country.

There are some nice filipinas, and ladies from other countries at DIA, but, the number of scammers on the site, and the way the site is operated, means I still suggest decent people look elsewhere.


Whether or not DIA is involved in other fraudulent or illegal activity, I don't know.
SOme of the organized sex industry in the Phils is operated by Westerners, not all. I gather the local media is happier showing white faces being arrested than brown.

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