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Clemens Phelps/Craig Paulson/ DANIEL GREEN

Postby brightsmile on Wed Nov 04, 2009 1:08 am

Hi

I have been communicating with Daniel Green on yahoo for 3 months now. It was a rocky relationship, intense and damaged. I sent him money knowing what I was doing and that he possibly is a scammer. I take the blame for it . I knew what I was doing, I was falling in love with him and he made me feel great. That says a lot coming from a gorgeous blonde that gets invites to dates like 20 times a day. He was my challenge, my passion and his unavailability coupled with my natural need to to be the hunter was a beautiful match. We laughed together, cried together, made love together but alas it ran out of steam. I broke it off more times with him than any guy on this earth and we kept coming back for more. We Im'ed endlessly, spoke on the phone for many, many hours. He saw me on cam and was thrilled with me (with good reason) but I am also a natural clown and he was my biggest fan. It was truly wonderful until all my insecurtities came into play. I wanted to see him, he claimed he needed a laptop with a webcam. I finally sent the money and he bought it this past Monday. And I knew that it was over. I know he's not real but it did not bother me too much . It was perfect for where I am in my life right now. I wanted the company without the hassle. I am not into commitment but in the end my natural yearning for honesty became too much and we both realized last night that the gig was over. Armed with his new laptop, he now claimed he did not have money to connect it. If he was just honest and admitted that he was not the guy in the pic, I could have handled it but to ongoing lies became unbearable. I told him never to contact me again and to enjoy the laptop. I actually meant that and the fact that I called him a prostitute. My Daniel spoke broken English, claiming to be from American/Mexican backgroung. I even had spanish friends speak to him in spanish on my webcam and they confirmed he speaks a kind of Spanish with a lot of slang. He told me his father died of a stroke, his mother left for another man in Mexico and that he is a lawyer who works all over the world. I am lucky, I already went through the anguish, the torment of not knowing. By the time I found him here on your website I was quite prepared. I dont want to claim to have been taken because I do not believe I was but his next victim might not be as strong as me. Please ask me any questions you have. May I add that I still love him in spirit.
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Re: Clemens Phelps/Craig Paulson/ DANIEL GREEN

Postby Pinky on Wed Nov 04, 2009 5:30 am

Just so you understand, you didn't find the real Daniel on this site. What you found were the pictures of the someone else that he hid behind.

If I read you right, you've elected to adopt an, "I got my money's worth out of him in entertainment," attitude. This is fine by me, if it works for you. Unfortunately it doesn't work for most the people who post here, so it's still a great thing that you've posted him up to help others who are not so well insulated as you seem to be.

Do not be surpirsed if you get your scammer to reveal himself to you. They do fall in love and sometimes become perversely obsessed with their victims when the victim takes back control and power as you have done. He'll still have a corrupt agenda in that he will want and need you to send more money and he'll also want and need you to help him immigrate to wherever you are located.

Also, do not be surprised when you find your scammer is an impoverished, 23 year old African male, who sits in a dirty internet cafe and chats online all day. He likely will be thin and short in stature, boyish looking, very dark skinned, young, fairly intelligent, a pathological and compulsive liar, a beggar, whiner and malcontent who craves a life of abundance and ease with no responsibilities.

I doubt you'll find the real guy of any romantic interest after.

*Oops! Edited out my typos. Late night last night. :oops:
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Re: Clemens Phelps/Craig Paulson/ DANIEL GREEN

Postby The Wild Geese on Wed Nov 04, 2009 7:33 am

Hello Brightsmile :)
Yes, you are maybe blond, gorgeous, and smart and can pick and throw any man which comes into your way. But you are denying the fact that this creep outsmarted you. He begged and you gave. He lied and you accepted his lies. You called him a prostitute but you avail of his service. This is the sad truth. He has seen you on webcam but you know nothing about him. All you know are the things he told you which are all lies. He can be obsessed by your beauty now that he will try every psycho tactics to win you back. You are undergoing denial which is one of the difficult stage of being a scammer's victim. You are telling that everything is alright to protect yourself. Good luck to you!
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Re: Clemens Phelps/Craig Paulson/ DANIEL GREEN

Postby brightsmile on Thu Nov 05, 2009 12:31 am

Dear Pinky and The Wild Geese

I just got word from Daniel Green. It has not been 2 days since our "farewell" and he contacted me because he loves me so much. Yes, Pinky, you are right. In a perverse way he has fallen in love with me. But he loves money more. But let's forgive him for that because more people in the US are addicted to money than anywhere else. What is unforgiveble is the ongoing lying to so many people. He is contacting me again as I am typing this to you. Pinky, your funny description of this skinny black plus that video surely put a damper on my romantic feelings. I am having a conversation with him while I am typing this and I am actually doing ok. He is trying hard to convince me that God has created him to make me happy and that he is just having financial dificulties in trying to connect to the internet. Of course its my fault that he does not have the money because I dont trust him enough to send him more lol He does not know that I know he is a scammer and I think it is best that way. I want to get him where it hurts so I am starting to think of a plan. Will keep you informed.
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Re: Clemens Phelps/Craig Paulson/ DANIEL GREEN

Postby brightsmile on Thu Nov 05, 2009 7:04 am

After careful consideration and reading over and over tonight's IM conversation with the above mentioned crook, I have come to the sensible conclusion that this idiot is not worth my time on anything and he just bored me to tears tonight. I think it is dangerous to communicate with someone you had feelings for and not expect a yearning to rekindle what was lost. Like an alcoholic should not be hanging around bars! I learned a lesson and I learned something about myself that I am not proud about but which was necessary to become a wiser woman. I thank you for this site and wish all of you the best in finding your own inner peace and beauty.
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