Well, she does have feelings. The the written word is a powerful tool for manipulating the mind and these scammers use it very effectively via the anonymity of the internet where they can hide their eyes (the windows of the soul) behind computers. The best advice you can give her is to never send money - or give her love to - someone she hasn't met face to face and made full eye contact with.
A major factor that has contributed to your friend's predicament here is that she is a decent, honest, kind hearted, gentle soul who has probably never had a brush with a truly evil sociopath. Now she has. It is going to be very difficult for her to get this because up to this point she wasn't even aware that such evil existed and she won't want to believe it.
I pray that you can get her here when her time of realization comes so we can all support her in the things she must do to protect herself in the future.
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