Postby Ruffled Feathers » Sat May 05, 2012 10:27 pm
Hello Carlottak
I just finished reading your post, please believe me, you are not alone and you will find that many people on this site are here to help and guide you through the healing process. Many of us have been through what you are going through and as we have healed, we reach out to help the new victims.
You must always remember you did nothing wrong, your scammer led you to believe his lies and actually what he was really after was your bank account, which fortunately you were not able to supply what he wanted - money. You must always remember, these are evil people and you just got caught up in all his lies.
I am sorry you had to go through all of this, but you will find as you heal, you will be a much stronger person for the experience. Your recovery now is the most important thing, you must get rest and eat properly in order for your mind and heart to heal, and I promise you, you will become stronger everyday that passes.
Block all contact with this devil, do not answer his emails, phone calls or skype messages ---- NO contact with him ever again. The next thing you can do to help in your healing, is to post all information about him, including his email address, IP address, and headers and any pictures you have, this will serve as a warning to others about this devil - low life. If you require help in any way, ask for it and someone will be right with you to advise you through this terrible hurt. Please start by taking care of yourself.
If you wish to talk to me again, just send me a PM and I will answer you immediately. RF