When it comes to these scammers , to begin with, I thought that when I read a letter similar to that my scammer sent to me I immediately thought "This is the same person as my scammer". Now I realized that these evil beings
are just using the same ready made manuscripts. They were taught to be experts in these copy and paste methods because this is the first thing they have to learn in their scammer recruits school to be able to woe their victims . Most of them work in groups. That is why we can find the similarity of their letters. Now I can see that we are not dealing with a single person we are really dealing with an organized crime. Maybe there are few who works alone so that they have nobody to share their loots.
These men and women are members of these army of swindlers. They are evils, ruthless, wicked, liars, you name it! We innocent and trustful people are their victims.
How could we fight these crime? The only thing I could think of is to try to be aware that these evil beings exist. I learned their existence in an expensive way. But as we know, the best way to learn is through experience. I experienced, then I learned! I know that I did a stupid thing when I visited UK to meet my scammer. Luckily he was not in UK when I was there because his station is Malaysia . Which I did not knew before, before I found RS. I now realized that I was exposing myself to dangers but doing such thing was a blessing in disguise for me because it opened my eyes that the person I thought I fall in love with doesn't exist at all! Behind those nice letters, sms, and nice and happy telephone conversations is a SCAMMER!
I just hope that people out there will not ruin their economy. Luckily I did not do it. But I could have given my money to some other needy and unfortunate ones. One that really needs it. I myself, is not very particular about money. As long as I have something for my daily needs then I am satisfied with my life. I am always generous that is why I am not rich and will never be rich. When somebody needs a dollar, I give them two because I feel very sorry to those who have nothing and I have more. Then this scammer found me. I was not a bad investment for him. All in all he got something like a 5- 10 years salary for an ordinary African employee just from me in a couple of months. But these evil scammers loves to live in luxury at the expense of us honest people. So maybe the loots he took from me just disappeared in a matter of days.
As of now I already discovered all his lies.
The healing process is a difficult process but I am trying to forget my sad experience. My scammer doesn't know that I now know he is a scammer. I am just playing games with him. Just to make him busy on me and will not be very busy finding another innocent victim. He still sends those sms, emails, nice poetry (copied ones for sure), calls me but I never pick up the phone and begging me to call him through sms and emails. But I have decided that I will no longer use a single cent to talk to him. Yes, I tried many times to let his phone ring in the middle of the night just to spoil his good night sleep.
And it amuses me! He once called me wicked, evil being because I did not helped him out with his last money problems. (Daughter in the hospital with inflammed apendicitis) Poor baby! I who have the money turned my back when they needed me most!
But After a while he came back and told me " I still love you as before and nobody can take your place in my heart".
I am still of value for him because he knows I have my pay check every month which he thinks I can share with him. All these sad experiences can be forgotten, time will come. Thinking about revenge will just make things worst for us victims and it will make the healing process more difficult and complicated. For me, playing games with my scammer is more rewarding. Because he is not the one fooling me. I am fooling him now. He deserves to be fooled!