scammers with pictures of Troy Casey

[Maru]

Robert Strikes again?

Sure I can Byebye. Lets start with "Robin":

Robin Mangan
E-Mail Address: robinmangan@yahoo.com

Mails he wrote

1st.- Hello Dear I will Love to see more of Your pictures

Thanks for the mail I'm robin,married for16 years,widowed for four years with a 12years old son Cody. I deal on women best friends and I love what I Do. i live in Bakersfield, CA, so i love it here till this moment but only lacking Love,life is too short to be lonely and i hope you know how that hurts..am a man with a huge heart filled with a lot of TLC ready to give to the right woman.i would love to know more about you because i am itching and willing to tell you more about me.how long have you been on the internet dating ? what are you looking for? feel free to add me to your IM list, robinmangan@yahoo.com I will be glad to hear from you soon

Robin

2nd.- Hello Dear!!!!
Thanks for the email,am happy to receive one from you.don't really know how to start but i guess i have to tell you in a way i could.am a man with a huge heart and a lot of TLC who is passionate about life.am a father of a handsome 12years old son who means a lot to me,I love kids they are the best part of me

I Love traveling because it's part of my job,have been to series of countries and round the US as well.i love trying new things because we learn every day as long as earth exist.Going to the beach taking a long walk on the beach holding hands with the right one,listening to the sound of the waves wash in,going to movies,shopping,going for concert and i also salsa and Tango..i love listening to music and my favorite are country,slows,blues,rock,i love Good music also

Am a Born catholic and i believe in God, i meditate with most holy rosary,and i am Reading a book God Never blinks by Regina Brett...i believe building a wonderful relationship is under trust and understanding between couples.

My desire of loving a partner is very high because i am ready to go any miles for love,it's he that travels for love finds one and give love what it takes..
my Ideal day with my partner will be waking in each others hands,making breakfast for her while she still on the bed..I want to see her walk around our house in a big t-shirt with her hair down and catch me staring at how gorgeous she looks,take her on a cruise to an island named LOVE and make she see the reason i believe in Love.

my working day don't really have a fixed time because i work from home,i have a 75 years old mother.my dad passed away 18months ago.am the second child I lost my elder sister 2 years ago who used to live in San Marcus...

so tell me what does it takes to be in your heart,what makes you happy and what turns you on and off in a relationship.

How often do you lose your temper ?

Robin

3rd.- Here are some of my beliefs about what makes a great relationship between a husband and wife.Please let me know if you feel the same way

Togetherness: In a healthy relationship, two people create a sense of both intimate and autonomy. They enjoy each other company's but also pursue solitary interests. Feeling safe and secure, working together for the common good of the family and the relationship. Both finding fulfillment in shared interest and individual interests as well.

I looked into your eyes and I saw what was in your heart..i will like to know you better..What makes you more happy..
I will look for you.I hope to meet you there for a chat..How was your night ?..Hope you had a good sleep..i look forward chatting with you soon

Expressiveness: partners in a healthy relationship say what they feel, need, and desire in an assertive, rather than aggressive or blaming, manner. Feeling secure in the relationship allows you to be honest knowing that you won't be judged or criticized for your feelings.

Staying Power: Couples in a committed relationship keep their bond strong through tough times by being there for each other. By choosing to love one another even when they may not feel like it. Love feels good but sometimes we need to make a choice to love, this is true maturity.

Laughter: Humor keeps things in perspective. Life's to short to sweat the little things, laugh at your self, enjoy the blessings of each other.

Support: Partners in a good relationship offer each other encouragement, comfort and acceptance. It's not about what you can do for me, it's about what can I do for you. Build up and edify each other.

Physical: Sexual desire may fluctuate or diminish over time, but partner in loving, long-term relationships retain some physical connections. The touch, the smile, the holding of hands. The gentle kiss at night, a soft touch after work, I pray to never lose my love for the touch.

Personal Growth: In the best relationships, partners are committed to bringing out the best in each other and have the others best interests at hear. To help make you all you can be. To come along side you as you fulfill your own destiny.

Respect: Caring partners are aware of each others boundaries, need for personal space, and vulnerabilities. They do not take each other, or the relationship, for granted AMEN..
Yes I was recieving too much of mails so I decided to delete my profile from the site since I already find you so interesting.I do not want any complications later so there will be no games.I do see it in your heart that you are ready for a good relationship.I do hope to hear from you soon and do send me your pictures okay baby.Thanks for hearing from you so soon.S

with love,
Robin

4th.- Hello My MILLION DOLLAR WOMAN, WHAT A BEAUTY YOU ARE MY ANGEL!!!
Hello My MILLION DOLLAR WOMAN,

Here are a few things I wish to do with you as soon as we can be together:

Be your best friend.
Get caught with you in the rain.
Dance with you in the rain.
Stargaze on a clear night.
Watch the sunset together.
Spend all day with you doing nothing.
Moonlit walks on the beach.
Be more proud of you than I already am at this very moment.
Go on a carriage ride through the park.
Do a crossword together.
Go to brunch.
Have a disagreement (it will only make us stronger).
Go for a twilight horseback ride.
Watch a bad movie together.
Spend the rest of my life with you.
Have our picture taken together.
Eat ice cream with you.
Make love to you passionately.
Give you oral sex and bring you to climax.
Go to a museum together.
Talk to each other using only body language.
Give you space when you need it. Accept you totally and completely.
Discuss current events in a heated debate.
Never give my love to anyone but you
Have you seen the error of my thoughts from
aforementioned heated debate and make mad, torrid
love to you, in the midst of all that passion.
Carve our names into a tree/table.
Go for a walk at dusk together.
Be one with you.
Send you a dozen red roses.
Spend all night thinking of 101 sweet things to do for you.
Hold you and gaze into your eyes and realize how much I love you...and tell you.
Gently run my hand across your cheek and look into your eyes.
Blindfold you and take you somewhere romantic.
Spend my life making you happy.
Spend my life making our family happy.
Feel your heartbeat.
See our unborn child in your eyes.
Go roller/ice skating together.
ALWAYS being honest with each other.
Building very strong TRUST.
Act silly with you
Play hide and seek, and when i catch you, give you a very loving kiss.
Chase you on the beach barefooted, and splash water all over you
Go hiking/camping together.
Have our first fight, make up and feel a stronger bond
Laugh at something together.
Make you laugh
Share a plate of spaghetti.
Go on a fun family vacation and bring back the kind
of memories movies are made of.
Treat you like my QUEEN.
Go on a road trip across America.
Count thunder together during a thunderstorm.
Envelop you in my soul.
Put my ear to your stomach when you are pregnant
Know you better than you know yourself.
Go to a Street Fair together.
Plant a tree in our yard together.
Look over at you during an office/family party and have you know without me saying a word - that I love you.
Be able to say "I love you" in 89 different ways - in 89 different countries.
Hold you when you're at your saddest and comfort you when you need it the most.
Be the one you come to for that comfort and holding.
Wipe away the days' stresses and issues, with just one hug/kiss.
Grow old with you.
Love you Always,

Yours
Robin







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The last one is the same pic he was using in the site.

Now lets show you Troy

Troy Mccoy
Email Address: dmcwhales@yahoo.com

1st.- Hello Maru

Hi Maru,

How are you doing? It is a beautiful morning here and it was even more beautiful when I got a message from you. I will like to get to know you better and I don't think distance matters. I believe if we both want this to work we can do something about it. I will like to know more about you. Write me when you have the time to. Talk to you soon.

Thanks,
Troy.

2nd.- Hello Maru

Hello Marina,

Thanks for writing me. It is a pleasure reading from you. I want to thank you for taking time to write me back, I reckon you must have a lot of work on your hand. Thanks for sharing this information with me.

I am from Turin, Italy. I had my education in the UK. I live with my son in the US for a long time now. I am a civil engineer. Just like you my son means the world to me. I believe your job is a pretty interesting one. I will like to know all that there is to know about you.

How long have you being in your profession? Do write me when you have the time to.

Troy.

3rd.- Hello Maru

Hello Maru,

It is always a pleasure to read from you. I find myself looking forward to reading from you. I am asking like a little kid on his first date.

I wish you all the luck on your job. How long have you being on recess? I do believe your life is a very busy with since you have to satisfy a lot of viewers and also make the boss happy.

The handsome prince in the picture is indeed my son and I love him with all my heart. Yes he lives with me. I lost my wife to breast cancer 3 years ago. I will like to see some pictures of you and maybe your daughters if you feel comfortable enough sharing them with me. I can picture what it must be like in your house. I know it is also going to be a lot of fun. I am a man who doesn't believe in divorce. I believe in making things work. The moment people stop trying that is when all hope is lost.

I guess you have traveled to quite a lot of places. What countries have your traveled to?

Tell me more about your family and things that you like to do during your free time.

Troy.

And Couple of minutes after i received this mail he sent the next one:

4th.- Hello Maru

Hello Maru,

Your email really helped me to learn more about you.....I think you're really a very special woman, I find myself very interested to get to know each and everything there is to know about you..... Here are some of my thoughts that came to me head after reading your email. Maybe this will give you a perspective of what I am looking for in a life partner.

When I decided I would try Millionairematch.com, I had three songs in my life I wanted to apply to this journey. I am a true believer you cannot let your past steal what joy you have for today. These songs are a representation of the stages I hope to experience. The first song is "Send Me A Lover" by Taylor Dayne. The second song is "All We Ever Find" by Tim McGraw. And the last song completes my journey with "Unloved" by Brooks and Dunn.. These are songs that I have not shared in my life but hope the person I find is who will share them with me. If you could choose three songs to represent what you are hoping to find in this venture what would they be? My favorite books are titled "The Precious Present" and "Who Moved My Cheese". Both of these books have sustained me to keep my pain in the past and put only love in my future.. What books do you believe, besides the Bible (the only Book) has sustained you to understand your pain and become stronger because of it.. People believe communication is the key to life and happiness. How would you define that in your life? I believe communication is becoming lost. They say finances are the major cause for broken relationships, but I believe it is communication.

I know how to communicate in my job and other aspects of my life…but do not apply the same principle in my personal life. Communication in relationships and especially those of your partner must remain open. I feel communication is an essential combination of listening and giving. To understand your partner you must listen. Sometimes that means when something is said… there is nothing you can do about it but listen. It should be a way you can express how you feel and you understand there is no right and wrong to the way you feel…it is the way you are. People so often fail to listen to your life partner they are not really telling you what they want as it is what they need to feel complete. There is a difference. Wants are all encompassing and go outside of our needs. Your needs are what you must have to survive, and your wants expand beyond that.. You may want things but that does not mean you will always need them.. I believe my faith keeps me engaged to overcome life experiences. I see today where men and women fail to see some of the most basic principles of why God made them as they are. We are so busy trying to define and defend our gender and outlining our equality that we forget the strength of a man to protect and the nurturing of a woman to enhance that strength.

I believe a relationship is about carrying each other when you are too weak to carry your own physical and mental weight. commitment is a devotion and goes far deeper than love. the best attribute in loving someone is to adore them first. I believe if people do not begin to take the time to be personal in each other lives we will not be able to sustain relationships. Technology is better than sliced bread…but it was not intended to take away from personal touch and human connection. It was developed to supplement but not to replace that which needs to be heard and felt.. What is a best/true friend to you?? To me… a friend doesn't enable your decisions and desert you when you don't make good ones.

A friend should give you a perspective and point out when you are not being totally honest with yourself so you can improve yourself for better and not for worse. A friend does not judge you but understands you and completes your life but does not run your life. But a best friend is devoted to the quality of your life so the quantity of it can be shared for as long as God allows you this earthly journey…together. A best friend allows you to express yourself as an individual, admire you for it, and know the value both bring in fulfillment to you as a person. A true friend nurtures your personal growth in life and encourages its development without jealousy because they have faith in you. A true friend gives unconditionally, loves unconditionally, and understands unconditionally.. But a life partner is all of this…your best friend, your true friend, and your forever friend. It is the combination of the deepest respect of friendship one can have..

A life partner does not follow you or lead you but stays beside you… so when your burdens are more than you can carry… they will let you lean against them for support and know you will hold and embrace them so they do not fall. But most of all…a life partner gives strength and balances your weaknesses so that you stay steady on this journey together.In this venture of dating site…a gentlewoman asked me "What is it that you do to make a woman feel special?" How would you answer that about a man? Unfortunately, this gentleman was implying in the physical sense or at least it was the answer she was searching for.

I believe everyone is different in how they need to feel special in someone's life. The part that person plays in your life determines the way you make them special. To me, making anyone feel special is to understand them and that takes time, patience, and compromise. As time passes, you find how deeply you grow with them and how you can show them verbally, emotionally, physically and sometimes materialistically how they enhance your life.. And when they do, it is only natural you would want to respond with the same. Special to me… are little expressions you do for a person to let them know you deeply care not only for them but about them. They are the small acts of kindness, considerateness, touch, words, thoughtfulness, and togetherness you share.. Being special is a feeling of warmth and embrace. I have not dated many women in my life. I can count on one hand those women.

I believe People come into your life for different reasons, seasons, and for a lifetime. My heart is the most valuable gift I have to give to a woman............ Because when I do, then everything else I feel comes naturally for her.. It would be giving of myself intimately, passionately, and willingly.... When I give my heart, I want to take care of her needs, wants, and desires.. The rest comes as an individual in growing with her, understanding her, and caring for her. she will know she is special not because of one particular thing I show her… but in the way she needs and desires me to show her.. It would be a closeness you feel without touching you and a togetherness you would always miss no matter the distance between you.

But I won't know what that is or how it is to make it special…until we exchange our hearts. Because each person deserves to understand that to be special you are not a replica in someone's life, but a value to and in their life. When you understand the value of someone in your life, then you have found what true worth is all about.. So dear I could sit and talk with you for hours about sports, weather, and most any subject you would like… but for me... I want to understand what you love… and how you came to love what you have in your life and where you want to go in your life. If you think the same…



Take Care,

Troy.















Troy even has a LinkedIn profile with the same information he gave to me about his birthplace, occupation and so on. but has no contacts and the company that he supposed to works in and owns does not appear on the Internet. Please investigate before getting involved with strangers. No one falls in love with someone in three days or four e-mails and less a successful person. I hope this information will be helpful.

Regards,
Maru

[Ralph Warner]

I am sure it will be, thank you for posting

[Luc707]

Removed full quote, left author name of removed quote - Ralph

@byebyescammers

Hi,

I was reading your post and I liked what you said about the further attempts at you would keep him from going after someone else. I thought the same thing, but because I refuse to send the guy money, he stopped communicating with me. In fact, he told me that he had already found someone else to help him. I interpreted that to mean "to scam." Since we cannot stop them, the best defense is educating others as to what to look for. They can only succeed if we play victim to their scams. People need to stop and think about someone falling in love so fast and sight unseen. I
I had two in a row to try to scam me and I believe I have another one. I had one guy to contact me through one of the dating sites. His profile said that he was white/Caucasian but sent me a picture of a black man. I questioned him twice about it. He never explained it, but changed it on the site and he stopped writing me. I just asked him if he was confused about whom he was. I was thinking that he may have forgotten who he was playing this time.
I was wondering if my name was on a list or something. I am truly sick and tired of them. They make it hard for honest people to find one another. I am glad you were able to see through him.

[byebyescammers]

@Maru - Thanks for posting the additional material - helps those who are searching on phrases in emails from their scammers. Funny thing - in one of the pix he sent me, he had a tattoo on his arm - looks like it might have "fallen off" in your pictures, which don't appear to be all of the same person He hasn't expanded his material much!

@Luc - I wondered if I was on a list too. We need a "do not scam" registry like the "do not call" one! A few times I have received unsolicited Yahoo IM requests saying they had met me on Match (but their profiles were none I had seen and were out of area). Probably they sent Yahoo requests from the wrong alias. I wish I had more time to take up the admirable hobby of baiting the crooks to keep them from others. I thank those on here that do it. In the meantime, I pass along to all of my single friends the valuable lessons I've picked up from here and my own experiences.

Don't give up hope though! I'm happily in a serious relationship with a great guy I met through It's Just Lunch - certainly met lots of folks I didn't click with through IJL, but at least I knew they really existed, lived locally, and their ID had been verified (IJL requires a physical meeting by their staff, and they photocopy the driver's license). Turned out to have been a worthwhile though substantial financial investment... once I got past the short, the bald, and the not-so-smart ones they kept setting me up with... none of whom lived or worked in Nigeria

Good luck to all!

[dobieLover]

I too met 'Troy McCoy' from Millionairematch.com. Here is the information I have on him:

Email address that he is using: madridfan.troy@hotmail.com
IP: 172.130.12.38 (AOL), 65.54.190.12 (hotmail)
location: Roanoke, VA
pics: same that Maru provided

Email sent:

I don't let anything get in my way but it all depends. I will never hurt anyone to get what I need. If I have to let go of a contract that is worth a lot of money for my family I will do just that. I like to compete, it is in my nature to try to do better but I don't go overboard if you know what I mean.

A little about me. I was born in Turin Italy to a family of four, this includes my parents and baby sister. I was 9 years old when I lost my parents. It all happened like a dream and I remember that day. I did something wrong my dad was upset with me so he set out to punish me by leaving me back at home while the rest of the family all good out. I was locked in the house and it was taking a long time for them to get back. I was waiting to tell my dad how sorry I was. I had no idea it was the last time I will ever see my family. It so happened that there was an accident and they all died. I left Italy after 4months for England with my father best friends. That was how I got the last name McCoy. The only thing I have of my family are memories and a gold wrist watch that has being in my family for years. I had my educations in the UK and yes I got the accent. I lost my adoptive father 2 years ago, his wife who was more than a mother to me died when I was 24 years old. I met my wife when I was in brazil on vacation. It was almost love at first sight, I say almost because she thought I was a player. For me it was love at first sight. I lost my wife 3 years ago after being married for 15 years. She died from breast cancer and it was the hardest thing to happen to me. I couldn't believe our dream of creating a happy home just went out of the window in a single day. I was hard to take but I remember the words she said to me. She told me she was leaving me with a gift and he should be my strength. My little man has being my strength all my this years. He is 4 years old and he loves the beach a lot. I like thunderstorms, I like all pets dogs and cats alike...I like dog more though.

I am a civil engineer (private contractor). My work is not easy by any means, but I love it and also it affords me the time to pay attention to things that are more important in life. Money is not everything in life, I have never cared about money. I have never being dishonest to be who I am today and I won't change that for all the gold in the world. All I want is to find love once again and be happy as a family. A lot of people search for different things in life and they find them, all I want is to be happy I don't believe that is too much to ask for, is it ?

I don't have time for game. Have you had any bad experience on the web or something? What has your experience being like? For me this is all new and I just getting a hang of it...

Troy.

header info:

X-Originating-IP: [172.129.196.219]
From: Troy McCoy <madridfan.troy@hotmail.com>
To: <xxx@xxx.com>
Subject: RE: Hello xxxx
Date: Thu, 11 Aug 2011 09:15:24 -0400
Importance: Normal

Header trimmed

2nd email:

How are you doing? I am sure you are looking forward to the weekend. Thanks for your kind words. You know they say what doesn't kill a person makes him/her stronger. I have been through the fire and out. I am thankful for all that I have gotten out of life. There are so many people in the world with sad stories like mine, it is important to never let anything get you down. I keep my chin up and keep believing that someday life will be better.

I have no idea what it is like to have hell for marriage, I was married to a woman that loved me and who I loved and respected. I feel bad when men treat women like objects, without love and respect. I was married for 15 years. I know I wasn't married for as long as you.

I am a fun loving person. I am a very caring and sensitive person, I am a level headed, down to earth person who is totally devoted to the one I love. I tend to be shy at first, but I will open up quickly with the right person.I am confident, calm, and happy. An introvert by nature, I am quiet, structured, and organized. i think I'm a pretty easy going person. I love to be shown affection and don't have any problem whatsoever showing the right person lots of of it, i always say if its better to give than to receive. I think that i have a pretty "strange" sense of humor at times. i look at it this way I'd rather make a joke than to sit around and dwell on things i can't do much of anything about.I literally despise people who put on or lie about things and think they can get away with it where I'm concerned.I consider myself a sensitive, kind, and gentle person who enjoys being with people. I like going to the movies, listening to music, taking long walks on the beach.Favorite activities are going to the movies,taking walks the beach, being healthy. Most of all I love to be romantic for that special someone.

I am looking for my one and only. I believe for every person there is a soul mate. I am looking for mine. she needs to be fun loving yet responsible, loves the outdoors and sitting at home cuddling while watching a movie.The woman I'm looking for would have to be tall, romantic, caring, sincere, spontaneous, affectionate, loves to cuddle and give great lip action. someone who is not afraid to speak her mind, not in to head games, like to just take it easy on those lazy days but when work needs to be done is not afraid to get his hands dirty. i love a woman that smells good (cologne wise,lol) I'm looking for a woman that knows what she wants and isn't afraid to ask for it but doesn't come on too strong! she should also know how to treat a man like she is supposed to be treated, not with the old idea in mind that a woman place is in the home barefoot and pregnant cooking and cleaning waiting on her man's every need and want. that may be alright for some women but not for me.But most of all honest and dependable.

Write me when you have the time. Have a great weekend.

Troy.

2nd header:

X-Originating-IP: [172.130.12.38]
From: Troy McCoy <madridfan.troy@hotmail.com>
To: <xxx@xxx.com>
Subject: RE: Thanks
Date: Fri, 12 Aug 2011 19:58:16 -0400
Importance: Normal

[Ralph Warner]

Hi and thank you for your post,

Both IPs come up clean but I suspect they will be found to be proxies.

Please take a look around, read our FAQ and if you have any questions dont hesitate to ask

[firefly]

The last picture is stolen from http:/ /www.modelmayhem.com/1052266 - american male model Troy Casey.

[suzy29]

Hi yes I am still talking to this guy, I met him on Marry me Sugar Daddy. He left me a message in my email box then asked me to contact him on his personal email adress:

He is now using the name Christian Estrada email adress C1strada@yahoo.com and his profile name is Oaklands Finest1 I was suspicious because I have already been scammed on anothersite, so I have done every check possible on this one. He now claims to be living in Oaklands California and he is a Construction Engineer who has just started his own business. He clams to be widowed 5 years ago and has 2 children a boy and a girl Angela and Noah aged 8 and 10. and he has sent me a photograph of 2 children. The emails are all the same script as is on this site.
He doesnt even know yet that I have sussed him, and I have emailed the site to tell them. He is already saying he wants to be with me and spend his life with me and that is what has made me realy suspicious. So girls he is back out there do not be fooled he is veery plausable and his English and spelling very good even the reverse google imaging and email scanner didnt pick him up. It was only the phrase detector that caught him out. Anyone else in contact with him and wants to know anything else please contact me. Suzanne

[Nobody's Fool]

He's BACK!!!! This is the new photo he is using on Match.com. He now goes by the name of Mark Paradiso... Same story... Was born in Italy, he's a private contractor building an orphanage in Malaysia, both parents are dead, he only speaks of a six-year-old daughter, Agata. Wife left 3 years ago... blah, blah, blah.
His Match profile stated that he is 51 and lives in Raleigh NC.... There is no Mark Paradiso in Raleigh NC
Took me a week to get what I needed to find him on Romance Scam.... Dumb bastard sent me the exact letter, word for word where he talked about the three songs that represented his journey.
These are the new addresses that he is using now;
Match.com: two2gether2012
Gmail Account: m.fulloffaith@gmail.com
Yahoo messenger: m.paradiso512012

[FrumpyBB]

This is concerning for not only us women victims but the stolen ID of a man & his 5 y/o son whose pics are being shared. Alias? Steve Kirchmann, Affectionatesteve@gmail.com or Affectionatesteve@yahoo.com

1st email with header and pics:
Fulll header:
Steve Kirchmann
Return-Path: <affectionatesteve@gmail.com>
Subject: Steve from Match
From: Steve Kirchmann <affectionatesteve@gmail.com>

Email #1
How are you today? Your profile was interesting and just kept on reading it again & again & again. You sound very sincere and special. If possible, I would love to get to know you. I decided to join match site because of the loneliness time I experienced last year until now; I pray things work out...Thanks for the message on here..Anyway i would love to get to know you better as presently i am away from the states on a business trip to South Africa and would not want this little distance between us to hinder our communication.

Kindly tell me what you seek in a relationship and the type of qualities you want in your man? I am new to this way of meeting someone and really do want us to get to connect better. Do know that at this point, love is all we need in our lives and i just want to be happy again.

More about me I am a Widower with one handsome boy he is 5 years old.. I am originally from Vienna Austria. I find very much peace and tranquility there. I am into the Sales of Antiques , Fabrics and Textiles, Sculptures, beads, gold, etc... I am the only child of my parents, athletic build, mentally stable, physically fit, a bunch of laughs, warm, caring, honest, God Fearing, and a positive person. I am real easy person to talk to and a good listener. I enjoy going to the cinema or watching movies in my home, I like swimming, fishing, listening to music and dance to any kind of music, traveling, going bowling and also a good cook, I can make crepes, pasta, Italian, and anything from scrape and my favorite are chips with chicken, shrimp, crab and rice. I am a family oriented person and there is more, but it would be better for you to find some things out for yourself...I will be coming back to the US in a couple of weeks time, i got here 3 weeks ago, i will soon be done with my shopping here. You really caught my attention, and i would love to know more about you , and also meet you too. I did a 3 day trial thing on match site, and i am so glad i found you!

I am really interested in wanting to know more about what makes you the special person you are today, I want to know more about your family, your background, your life experiences, past relationships, your goals and dreams, your interests, and anything else you want to tell me. So come on and share it all with me. I want to learn about you and what makes up your heart and soul, as the friendship I want to build with you I want it to be like no other you have ever shared in or experienced. This friendship I want to build with you will be filled with substance, quality, spirituality and potential.

An introvert by nature, I am quiet, structured, and organized. I think I'm a pretty easy going person. I love to be shown affection and don't have any problem whatsoever showing the right person lots of of it, I always say if its better to give than to receive. I think that I have a pretty "strange" sense of humor at times. I look at it this way I'd rather make a joke than to sit around and dwell on things I can't do much of anything about.I literally despise people who put on or lie about things and think they can get away with it where I'm concerned. I consider myself a sensitive, kind, and gentle person who enjoys being with people.

I like going to the movies, listening to music, taking long walks on the beach. Favorite activities are going to the movies,taking walks the beach, being healthy. Most of all I love to be romantic for that special someone. The relationship between a man and a woman should be based on trust and respect, being able to solve any problem by the way of compromises. That's the way to keep the sparkle of love burning for many years. I have been looking for a woman to share all the secret things with her and to feel her presence despite many miles between us... My one and only, where are you?

I want to find you so much...I need a honest woman, caring, loving, Happy, Easygoing sensitive, passionate, affectionate and Romantic...And a woman that is ready to spend the rest of her life with me more eager. Imagine a cold, rainy evening with thunderstorms and severe lightening. You are graciously preparing a beautiful candlelight dinner for us. As we savor our meal, we are engaged in some diverse conversation which only two people who are very close will appreciate whether its light and breezy banter or assisting each other with each's daily concerns.

After dinner we huddle in front of the fireplace with a blanket, some fabulously smooth wine, and some soft intimate music. Our feelings eminate as does the warmth of the fireplace. Later on we conclude the romantic night with candles, sensual massage creams/oils and delight in wonderful full body massages. We will fall asleep safe and secure in comfy positions we are definitely holding each other.

This is my PERFECT evening with my best friend/Only Lover/Soul mate. This evening is what my personal is all about.The adjectives that best describes me also will somewhat describe the Lady I fall "in love" with. I am romantic, spontaneous, passionate, sensual, perceptive, thoughtful, considerate, very NURTURING, LOVING, and GIVING. When I love someone, I am not an unemotional, internal type man.

I show my significant other much affection and solicit it as well. "The love you take is equal to the love you make". Reciprocity is one of the main ingredients to a great lasting relationship. Anyway that's for all about me and what I seek in a woman

I know that there is no barrier too great for God, when He chooses to bring two people together; I am at a point in my life where I would always be honest with the chosen one, and be there with the one God has for me 24/7.

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All emails are long like this one, same context, his replies don't match my responses, or doesn't answer questions, or after response, answers are listed at the end in clear English after body of email in very broken English. fyi, this first one has better diction in English than later ones. Will send the last one as good example of this.

[FrumpyBB]

Could you please post a YAHOO email header, I mean, from one email he sent you using his Yahoo account?

Gmail does not always work without "preparation".

[FrumpyBB]

email #3, full header, pics sent from 1st email.
This is soooooooo SAD for the guy & his son. I feel badly posting them here but the more evidence the better! ??

[b]This one talks of his parents death, wife's death & his abstinence.
Oh & by the way, his Match.com profile hometown is Boston.

Full header:
Subject: God took 1 rib from Adam and made Eve. I'm your missing rib to be whole!!!
From: Steve Kirchmann <affectionatesteve@gmail.com>
To: >


I feel really good checking my mail this morning and thanks for writing a well detailed email, I am happy you are interested in learning more about me, I have been single for many years now, because am yet to find that special one to share my life with, As you already know i am presently here in South Africa on a business trip as i am here to buy gold, beads, textiles ,sculptures and some paintings , it is cheaper down here compared to other part for the world, it has been an interesting business. I plan on owning my own store locally in the town and i am done shopping for the antiques and get my goods shipped into the states but for now i work from home, wanna make it pretty ultra modern... I'm really delighted with the way you've been able to tell me so much about yourself...We really do seem to have a lot in common ind this gives me an insight that there's gonna be no dull moment between us when we finally meet... You are someone who I'll want to explore the possibility of building a long term friendship with, that will in time turn into a serious relationship if you don't mind...In my heart I feel you have all the qualities it takes to make me very happy..

About my family it's a long story to tell and touching that make me share tears whenever i remembered the past. I will keep this short, I came out from a good combination of two, my Dad is from Austria while Mom is a native of Bahamas. I am the one and only child of my parent, I will count it ,I have a big Family because I don't know much about my Dads family in Oz while my moms part is very small. Unfortunately I lost my parent same day, same time, same moment by a car accident, this happened about 8years ago, since then I have started to live my life by myself and not depending on my family, although I still miss my Mom because of the courage and advises she used to give to me about life , but I am glad I am whom I am today.


About my past relationship, I have not dated in a while since the death of my wife years back and, ever since then I live my life through the word of God and through my spirituality, and I refuse to have sex with someone if I am not in a relationship with them. My reasoning which I understand is very strange in today's world, but my belief is my heart and soul, and the passion that is in it is very unique and special, so I made the decision and made a promise to God that I would not be sexually active for the sake of just wanting sex, or to have sex for someone else's own self gratification. Knowing the passion that is contained in my heart and soul is very unique, I made the decision to abstain from sex because I want this special gift to be shared with the person I am dedicating the rest of my life to.

I can cook pretty good ... I love red wine, French table wine and garlic bread. I've been working out more regularly than I had been, and eat healthy food...I don't do drugs, and I like who I am.. Although I think a terrific woman would bring out the best in me...I'm a believer in God who pray every blessed day , I am a good catholic , I attend church weekly, and try to do the right things every day...I don't worry about what people think of me...I know how to treat a woman well. My goals and dreams are to live a good life, happy home blessed with someone that believes in unconditional love.

I am honest, dependable, loving, gentle, affectionate and have good friendship. I feel that a WOMAN is GOD's undeserved gift to MAN and she is supposed to be loved, reverenced, protected, respected, and cherished.. Would like to go to the Hawaiian islands, like small intimate places to talk, not to much on the bar/clubs seen.. Like all types of food, I'm open to try new places and things, I also like to cook.. I wish i have someone to cook for...

I love cooking, going to the beach, Although i haven't gone to the beach in a long time now.. stay home listening to a country or romantic song, I enjoy love story's, I'm a very sensitive person i cry sometimes, with just watching a movie... I usually read several books at a time. I am currently reading the following: Max Lucado - Traveling Light;Chicken Soup for the Woman's Soul; It's All Too Much, Also 5 Languages of Love.

I enjoy the outdoors, esp the beach. Walking on the beach at night,waves crashing restlessly, a million stars in the sky,, ahhh perfect for me. I also like dining out, plays, movies, art.I'm pretty flexible as far as activities.. I like fishing,camping,reading,going to the movies,hanging around with friends,cracking jokes,listening to music,dancing, and also spending time with someone interesting.

Thanks again for writing me. You take the time to give your messages a personal touch and I really appreciate the effort. I can only hope that I don't end up being a disappointment to you. I can hardly wait for your next message. You've really made my day beautiful and i bless the day i found you on this Dating Online Site. As I'm ending this email I'm mentally giving you a hug. Have a great day and Take care sweetie.

I am really excited opening myself up with my past. But we all have one- and we must learn and grow from our mistakes or they will overtake us in our own folly.

"For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Jer 29:11 (NIV)

Hugs and Kisses,

[red zora]

Gmail does not any IP. What Frumpy means is if he has send an email with his Yahoo email address. That Header would be usefull A Header from this email address Affectionatesteve@yahoo.com

[chrisconkiller]

I know. He only emailed me from his gmail. He claimed to have yahoo but I never received any email from him via yahoo, not even an IM.
I find it confusing because he appears with his first Match profile pic in Yahoo IM, then the pic dissapeared and a second Match pic was displayed as his profile pic on YIM.

I've copied the screen and pic and will attach but doubt anymore info is available.

Will also copy & paste short Match emails from him here.
They're in reverse order.
he said

July 04

RE: Finally! I profile that isn't the 'cookie-cutte...

Hi Tina,

I am a down to earth, intelligent and caring man with an excellent sense of humor. I think I am a very fair and level headed person who believes strongly in open and honest communication, and I am a very compassionate and caring person, who believes in helping my partner achieve their goals and dreams.

I'm a truly decent person, and know how to treat others very, very well. I'm blessed with a good brain, and can offer a lot to a partner intellectually. I also have a quick wit and great sense of humor, also from the good brain I have a lot of love to give, and am capable of unconditional love. If I fall for someone, there's very little I won't do for them.

Email me off here if you care to know and learn more about me, thanks. AffectionateSteve@gmail.com

Steve



you said

July 04

RE: Finally! I profile that isn't the 'cookie-cutte...

Yes in true love if both give to the other, there's no need to take. It's a win-win situation. It feels wonderful to give to the one you love. And yes, writing your thoughts and feelings is very therapeutic. I'm glad you find peace with this. I do also, many times just journaling, not always sharing it with anyone else. We are human and have deeper feelings and emotions than what we acknowledge on the outside. We all have needs and should never let pride get in the way of expressing them.

As for communicating on here, it is safer than exchanging personal contact info right away. I've had some bad experiences on here, but please don't take that personally.

Are you on a free trial here?

And forgive my ignorance but tell me about the yahoo messenger & how that works please. I look forward to hearing from you again.

Thanks & happy Independence Day!




he said

July 04

RE: Finally! I profile that isn't the 'cookie-cutte...

Thanks for the message... I am interested in you. I want to share what I have with one special woman who will appreciate that i have a deep capacity to love that needs to be filled and fulfilled. We can't keep it unless we give it away. I am writing these thoughts as the flow into my head and my sense is that they are coming directly from my heart. I'm feeling very peaceful now and this seems like the appropriate place to stop. I'll be waiting to hear from you. You can easily reach me at AffectionateSteve@gmail.com or add me to your yahoo messenger list and my IM name is (AffectionateSteve).

Hugs,

Steve

This is all I can retrieve, sorry. Sorry I can't copy the IM screen with his profile pic. Wrong format/file.

[chrisconkiller]

Last email: Insisting I get off Match.

Also note broken English in long message, then answers to very specific questions I asked to get details of his whereabouts, home, pics etc. because I was suspicious. Obviously added by someone else....better English.
:downtown Boston'' plllease!

I really Appreciate Your Sweet E-mail showing more seriousness and Interest of you..I am Only Dedicating all My Interest on you Because You seems to be a Very serious,sweet and responsible woman,I greatly Appreciate every word you share with me and I will be Looking Into Your Heart and see when I will be Present.This Is all New to me,I have Never done this for a Long time Nor have Hope that dating Network will work for me,I am so Happy having my daily Smile all Day Long at work that i found a special woman I am talking to on here.I want You know that this Is no dream ,Because True love can start from any Angle or Corner You know what I mean aahaha..!! It not Necessary that you found someone Physically.. ahaha,I am Giving the Founder of Dating sites a special thanks and Honor..True love is not Just a Little commitment 2 People can Just Hook-up so fast,true love is everlasting and It take the Test of time.2 People are Likely to take their time getting to know each Other Better and resolve every problem about themselves before anything could be made.Mean while Our Past has Help Us to learn more about life and the Past Also make Us who we are today in life...I am so Happy we are taking this time Getting to know each Other More better...this is Awesome!!..I really want You to Know that as soon as I am devoted with one person,I am devoted forever,So Kindly do me a favor ,I want you to stop every conversation with Other Men on here and Take Off your Profile from the dating sites.i want you to have the Believe,determination,hope and to be confidential that everything will work Out Perfectly for me and you as far communication is in between us.You will Never have any regret meeting a man like me,I wish I can Explore my Profile to the world for every woman to take a Good Look about me ,You will see that Every women will Knock my door..I am not saying this to Boost my head,I am only letting you know that I am meant for only one woman Heart...You are the First woman I will be talking to and taking this Serious.I have Never been open minded with anyone Before like this in my life.My Heart Just found You Interested Honestly..I have prayed one day God will bring a wonderful, gentle yet strong, Kind hearted, loving, Faithful, Faith minded ,Spiritual,passionate, compassionate, woman into my life. I am hoping, praying.. you are this woman.Here I go again to make Your eye's blur!!..feelings should and need to be expressed, communication is so very important. And without respect there cannot be a good relationship. But jealousy and possessiveness can ruin a relationship, as it poisons one's mind. Trust is part of a solid foundation but as with everything in life it takes time to acquire. Also, in a good relationship each partner needs to maintain their individuality through mutual understanding. Takes time, patience and understanding. I know that the next woman in my life who meets my expectations will get the best of me. We seems to be sharing many traits and our outlook matches well. I love love and romance, sharing, caring and laughing. I am very good looking and fun to be with and I been complemented often on my smile and my cheerfulness. Open lines of communication is so important in a relationship. Discussing things and never fighting. Agreeably disagreeing is fine, we all have our own viewpoints but yelling, screaming and accusations are long are the things I don´t Live with In life.. Fantasies and dreaming is so cool but I must enjoy each day now. Took me many years to learn that. Not that I'm perfect the Little I know I can share it In life with someone. I like myself and I am comfortable with myself.As for intimacy: Intimacy comes with the ultimate trust in one's partner. Friendship, emotional, mental, and spiritual plains must first be met before true intimacy can occur. Without a solid foundation in a relationship there is really nothing but a superficial whatever. Instant gratification in anything is contraindicated to lasting happiness.I hope You Understanding me.take special care of Yourself and have a Productive day.Looking forward hearing from you.Have a Hug this is what I can Offer from a Distance,can't Imagine this Happening for real.. I hope that Put a smile on Your face ahahha.......Hope you take good care of your self and be safe, hope to catch you on here later...

Steve

PS : How long ago did your wife pass? Are her parents still living, or are there any siblings of her's that are family to Ben?
# My wife passed 3 years ago, it was really a sad memory. Her parents are both dead too, and she doesnt have any siblings.

What town in South Africa are you staying? I would love to see more pics while you're there. Very curious to say the least!!! If I were in another country I could not resist taking lots of pics!
# I'm in Johannesburg in South Africa. I would work in taking pictures hun. I hope your weekend went well.

When is your flight back & what airline & airport will you arrive at? I'd love to meet you at the airport!!
Where is your home?

# I don't have my tickets yet, once i have my flight booked, i will let you know my flight details, everything and all. I would love to meet you too. You could pick us up at the air-port if you don't mind hun, i live in Downtown Boston.