Cayo Alejandro - cutedad2020@gmail.com

[almostgotme29]

Here is some info on a scammer that goes by Cayo Alejandro, Email is cutedad2020@gmail.com. He is on Match.com as Cayo20200@match.com. He claims to be in the Oil industry. His profile says he lives in New Jersey, but through conversation, he has an English accent and lives overseas and has a house in a couple of different countries, but would "love to live in the States"...wait a minute,,,,his profile says he lives in New Jersey... so that doesn't make sense at all..when my friend asked where in New Jersey he lives, he all of a sudden had to go...and she never got her answer..but in a recent email he talked about owning homes in Venice and a couple of other countries...but not in New Jersey.

The usual poorly written letters with incorrect use of grammer, using words that don't make sense...Has a tragic story, parents dead, left with a 2 year old daughter who later in his story was 3. His daughters name is Cayana, then it changes to Navia...His daughters mother and he never married. Her name was Brenda,,,later in his story her name was Linda...
He is immediately and totally in love with my friend..., I will try and post some of the email he sent her...

"Cayana (my little girl) is my world and each time i look at her its like she blazes with this flame that gives me to courage to live .Have you ever been in a situation like you feel the world is all gone and you are the only surviver?..and then...u feel this feeling of isolation,depression,grief ,guilt and the only thing that comes across your mind is that life isnt worth living ?Thats how i felt .The world came crashing when i lost Navia's mom though we never got married ( i guess fate wanted it that way) and that was becos she never thought it deem for us to legalize it as in she wasnt sure she cud go into such commitment . We lived as man as wife and basically for me , we were married only that it wasnt legally binded .
I met Brenda ...the mother of my lil gal ..back in mexico where she was a suite receiptionist in one of the hotel i lodged in during one of my business trip ...Back to my life with Linda , problem started around the end of 2008 when ...news came in that linda dad and her junior brother had drown in a capsized trawler while fishing ...as humans , yes death is hard and no matter who it is ( as in the corspe) the carrier suffers it most...the news really distabilized her and i kept letting her know that even though i cant turn back the hands of time ..that i will be there for her...after a while ..everything was coming back to normal...but not knowing that she was alreayd suffering from a chronic nervous break down ...and the worst part was that she was secretly using drug.. but by time i realized ..she had gone into the excessive use of it ....and even when i was around and knew something wasnt right she would just flare up ...and i was so confused ..and didnt even know where to stand...i opted for rehab ..and i was like it was going to work out ...but u know ...no matter how possessed one might be with any external substance ..one has to let go before ..any rehabilition can work ...as Linda was coming back to her normal self ...i was rest assured and i started working again ...but before last business trip to Iraq then ...she had gone back ...and i can remember clear our last arguement ...she was over dosed ...she just flared up ..picked the key to her car ..and she just left ...it was later report after 3 day of intensified search that they her found her body ..badly damaged in the car...she died 3 days later ...leaving our lil gal and i .

I think that should be enough info for now. My friend blocked him and reported him to Match.com..wonder how many alias's he has...

[FrumpyBB]

They all have dozens, of either sex. Reporting usually is not of much help - exposing them as scammers on websites is better.

Any phone number, money request email and associates´ contact if available would be of great help !

[Myra]

dropped him a line from 3 diff accounts
he doesn't open the messages via computer
must be via iphone, blackberry or other web compatible devices

he opened my mails immediately
however, ...
Opened
Opened 2010/11/07 , - 3sec after sending
Location Mountain View, California, United States (43% likelihood)
no IP

[Myra]

bastard, still no IP

Hello XXX. Thanks for the email on match and sorry i havent been able to write back. The telecommunication connectivity has been terrible ever since i got there (Ireland). Thank goodness you were able to send an email and i must say its an executive and exclusive pleasure for me to be writing back. Oops hows your day? Mine was hetic after i took my profile off match, i had to go shower and run out to meet the buyer's mandate. Like i said am a business man and i deal in the oil and gas sector my specialization entials me to be some contract to the oil well owners. I kinda manage it for them on contract base and get my commision from how much they get to make during term of contract. So right now i am a seller mandate to an oil well in the bakassi peninsula.
(border: Nigeria to Cameroon, still fighting about which country it belongs to this oil rich area)
Well thats about that
Sorry i didnt notify you i was taking my profile off match.com, i was getting lots of spams and crappy emails and for the fact that i felt that chemistry when i came across your profile which i believe there is something fate has in stock for our path crossing each other.
--- acutally, I'm not on match.com
And you know i just also wish i will be that special man to get you off there, i dont mean to sound jealous but am trying to guard and protect this raw diamond which i just dug out. lol. I guess ive told you my lil gals name but for reputation sake, my name is Cayo and my little girl is Cayana. I moved to the states for the sake of my little girl. My late mom and Cayana's mom actually wanted out girl to be raised in the states and more to that mom had a home in the states and its soothing to at least having the comfort of the feel of a family member thing around you. Right now its just my little girl and i, i dont know of an existing family and i have just one friend he actually talked me into this online dating thing. Right now his on his homey moon trip with this newly wedded wife he got on match.com
As a sole mandate to an oil well i have been in the oil and gas business for as long as i know, and right now i am still on negotiation process and then to the bakassi peninsula where we will be finalizing the transcation thats for business. As for how long i will be staying in the states hope you dont mind to help me answer the question. lol. I will be posing this question, how long can you make me stay in the states? lol. Maybe the question about what i mean by a special woman would give you an insight to how long you can make me stay. For me i have this void in my heart its a craving space that can be up with so much love from that woman who understands that love is not about formalities or protocol. That woman who knows how to love and how to recieve love one who understand that life is about living everyday like xmas. One who every morning i see the dawn and thank fate for making our paths come together. That woman who have the virtous nature of truth in the holy book, one who is way out of this world; one who i understand she has her fault. But know how to cope with mine, understand the fact that a long term relationship is about knowing and understanding marital times; and being able to exhibit the marital tolerance. There is a lot to mention but i believe whatever brought your profile on my screen this day wasnt coincidentally, let me drop for now and if it will please you mia senorita. I will find it honourable if you'd take a lil bit of your time to tell me a lil about your world and what rocks it. As hopefully as i will be, i hope to hear from you very soon.
Hugs Cayo

[ericka]

Cayo Alejandro - aka Eric john Carlos - simplecaring dad on match.com
here is the same email I got from him

he is the same man he sent me photos as well of himself with the same child

this ended with him asking me for money to help get his injured daughter air lifted out of the bakassi peninusula

Hello little about my self
FROM:Eric Carlos
TO: (Mail address deleted)
Message flagged Friday, April 22, 2011

Hello mia senorita .. lol... How are u doing?... Thanks for the email.. ...i just thought i sud write a lil about myself
...lol....for myself as u know am Eric as you know ...a single dad ...who has been thru the worst and best times of life ...i know you might be wondering ..yep...life used to be very interesting ...and it was all about being jolly ...partying ...friends all around ...till I lost my fiancée. about a year ago...it was like hell would let loose ..i never imagined I would come out of it ....I mean we had a daughter...and I, as a business man ...who was always traveling ...couldn’t just cope with the loose ...but thanks goodness….not just that am coping ..my lil girl Ericka .....just 3+ is coping and I must say she is the reason for my present existence ....and I believe that the memories of her mom should be waning by now ....

if i might ask ...what happened btw ur ex and ur self ?...it must be hectic and emotionally depression ..i know what it feels like ..i mean after those times its been traumatic...and its just like am coming that chronic depression(thats why i try to occupy my mind with this business thing ...to get my mind of the past )...thank goodness we are coping fine ..I do believe that for a season there is a reason and for that ….whatever happened, happened for a reason.

I just moved to the States after spending most of my life traveling, working (you think my job is exciting right ..lol….nope ...I just use that to get the past off my mind ) .I actually spent most of my time ..in Aussie, Greece and Florence ....one of my favorite hobbies....is traveling ..I don’t mean for business trip ..lol.. I mean for vacs ..and sight seeing ..lol. You might ask what kind of business field am i, I am an Oil mandate who deal with Oil and Gas.

mom died..i was never told ..i never saw her after the time dad took me away ..but wherever she is right now ..i know she is happy ......i grew up in Florence Italia and Greece...that was in my early days...then thing were getting on fine ....suddenly dad took to the act of coming late ..getting drunk...then even went to the extent of beating mom....whatever happened then,Iwas too young to understand ..but what I knew was that dad took me away to the states ...I was sent to a boarding school..then, I didnt like it over there in the states..i had a sworn friend in Florence... Roberto (the guy who actually talked me into the online dating thing ..he has been my major back bone ..and been a friend of all time...)....Presently he is having his hunnie moon in paris .....so dad had to move me back to Florence .. but this time ... it was bad ... i mean really bad...I was restricted, to being tutor in English .. speaking Italian was forbidden by dad ... and more to it .. i was sent to a boarding school again.... you know the look of it ..lol... bullies .. of all sought .. but thank goodness I came out of it..."".What is your home country?"" for my home country ... i was born and breed in greece ..but spent most of my life ..in florence italy .

After many years .. i met Juliet my late fiancée, who was from Paraguay…. and the mother of my lil girl...in Paris....(then she used to wait on me ..in one of those hotel I lodged in)..we moved over to the states(that’s Florida )..about the same year Ericka was born...then something happened ...Juliet ..that’s my fiancée...got news from ..Paraguay that her father, and 3 brother lost their life ..fishing ..she got devasted ....took to drugs…. I mean coke ...Then I was on a business trip to Iraq...when I came back, I got the news too ..and then things actually changed ....i mean her emotional life.. she kept hiding it from me and I was too busy to notice (then I was so occupied with a contract) ...when I realized that ..i tried putting everything aside ...and also I tried putting her thru the rehabilitation process. but nothing came out of it (she was determined to destroy herself )..i still kept doing wat I had to do .. i mean protecting and loving her ..but she chose her own fate.....on one of those days ,i called her to explain to her ;that what she was doing wont do no good ..that we’ve got a kid ..and we sud just focus bringing her up....whatever I said that got her mad at me ..still haunts me till date .....but I know that ..from the very start of our relationship… I tried everything humanly ...to show her how much I loved her ....she just left ..i mean walked out ..still under the influence of drug ...took the key to one of my hummer 2..and drove out...that’s was Nov 2010.....After a few hours (you know… couples have lil misunderstanding ...and after a few hours they get together again)..i tried calling her on the phone ..to beg her ..to tell her that ..am sorry for anything she thought I said ....but I never knew that would be the last ..i would her from her ...after that day ..i got nervous ..and had called on the security to check for her where about ..i explained everything ..to them .....and they went hunting for her..but nothing came out of it ..later ..thats about 4 days ..after her body was found in the truck she was dead ..i wish I had done something better to get her out of it ..it was like hell was let lose ...she just left me ...left poor lil gal ...and I was almost driven the same way she was ..but ..thank goodness ..i saw that look in my lil gals eyes .it was like she was telling me ' dad dont worry about that ..we are going make it together...and that how we’ve been coping

A few months ago....dad called me to visit him...we had a nice get together ..and after a month of being with him.. he died of cardiac arrest...though. …I had this beef (from my early childhood days )with him..i eventually grew to love him in his later days ..thank goodness ..i had a chance to reconcile with ..him and may his soul rest in peace...he was the last of my blood line ..and for me right now ..its just Ericka and I...we've been brothers, sisters, cousin , nephew.. mom.. dad.. child ..and everything to each other.

I live ..on my own with my lil girl...either ..in my house in the London, Montana, Greece or Florence ..but presently ...we just want to call Maryland , home ...but you know the feeling ....its still a house for now till there is that partner to play spades with ....i know what it means to have a monogamous relationship...i understand what it means to have the martial tolerance ..and being able to bear my partner in marriage ...as I believe no one is perfect ..and if the marriage is to stand ...then one must be able to accept the lags of the other partner ..and being able to handle it ...i want to soar ..and grow old with that special woman ...i dont want to live it all a lone ..i want to be a father ..to some kids ...and to be a special one too....i want to hold hands .with her ..and always wake up each morning to look into her her and say something like "heaven ..i thank you for giving me this rare gem ..and not just giving her to me ..thanks for giving me on a platter of gold "..lol(i guess I am day dreaming now..lol)...but for real cutie ..i just like you to know ..my world..which is free and wild ...has a big VACANCY...and I just dream about it getting filled someday .

To conclude, ..am a very simple man ..love nature ..and miss those times when it was the family times thing ...i know someday ..it will come over again ...and I just savor it ...am shy (guess that’s why I prefer the internet dating thing ...and since its said its the way to go now..i just accept it ...lol)..at my leisure time...if am not doing ...the daddy ..girlie thing with my lil gal...you can always find me ..me in my Gym...i love body building ..it was one of my favorite ...and its still is....i hate driving ..lol...i think I prefer flying ..lol...and if you must know my lil secret ....lol...the kitchen is my favorite part of the house ...i love to cook mostly intercontential dishes happens to be my favourites..

I guess you must be sleeping now...must have bored you..lol ....was just trying to be open about my self ...hope to hear from you soon ...and lest I forget..if you have anything to ask feel free and wild to ask whatever you like to ..its a free and wild world ....lol

Hugs and kisess

Eric

[ericka]

I was mad a t myself for falling this crap. I have been doing a lot of searching for this man and I have learned that he uses several other names:

Eric John Carlos
Benito Christiano
Curtis Affleck
Cayo Alejhandro

[Pinky]

Actually, one or several scammers using those names have used that innocent man's pictures and we don't know who he really is.

[ericka]

All three of these people are the same man

Cayo Alejandro - cutedad202@gmail.com

Eric john Carlos - Moondadluv@yahoo.com

Benito Christiano - luv_overflow@yahoo.com

[ericka]

To Pinky

The pictures of this man are not stolen - he sent me a picture of himself to prove who he was as Eric Carlos. It is all the same man - See below: All of them are the same man - I am Michele and the notes were for - see the photo

Eric Carlos (Stolen photograph already posted in this thread)

Eric with his dead fiance



Eric from Africa



Benito Christiano (Stolen photograph already posted in this thread)

Cayo Alejandro (Stolen photograph already posted in this thread)

[ericka]

Here is another photo Eric Carlos sent me: - he is from New York just like Benito - notice he is wearing a NJ Devils Sweatshirt - there is a Hummer in the backround with a New York Plate on it

[ericka]

Eric Carlos contacted me at match .com and sent me the email below - funny thing is he also sent this same email as Cayo Alejandro to somebody else.

Hello mia senorita .. lol... How are u doing?... Thanks for the email.. ...i just thought i sud write a lil about myself


...lol....for myself as u know am Eric as you know ...a single dad ...who has been thru the worst and best times of life ...i know you might be wondering ..yep...life used to be very interesting ...and it was all about being jolly ...partying ...friends all around ...till I lost my fiancée. about a year ago...it was like hell would let loose ..i never imagined I would come out of it ....I mean we had a daughter...and I, as a business man ...who was always traveling ...couldn’t just cope with the loose ...but thanks goodness….not just that am coping ..my lil girl Ericka .....just 3+ is coping and I must say she is the reason for my present existence ....and I believe that the memories of her mom should be waning by now ....




if i might ask ...what happened btw ur ex and ur self ?...it must be hectic and emotionally depression ..i know what it feels like ..i mean after those times its been traumatic...and its just like am coming that chronic depression(thats why i try to occupy my mind with this business thing ...to get my mind of the past )...thank goodness we are coping fine ..I do believe that for a season there is a reason and for that ….whatever happened, happened for a reason.


I just moved to the States after spending most of my life traveling, working (you think my job is exciting right ..lol….nope ...I just use that to get the past off my mind ) .I actually spent most of my time ..in Aussie, Greece and Florence ....one of my favorite hobbies....is traveling ..I don’t mean for business trip ..lol.. I mean for vacs ..and sight seeing ..lol. You might ask what kind of business field am i, I am an Oil mandate who deal with Oil and Gas.


mom died..i was never told ..i never saw her after the time dad took me away ..but wherever she is right now ..i know she is happy ......i grew up in Florence Italia and Greece...that was in my early days...then thing were getting on fine ....suddenly dad took to the act of coming late ..getting drunk...then even went to the extent of beating mom....whatever happened then,Iwas too young to understand ..but what I knew was that dad took me away to the states ...I was sent to a boarding school..then, I didnt like it over there in the states..i had a sworn friend in Florence... Roberto (the guy who actually talked me into the online dating thing ..he has been my major back bone ..and been a friend of all time...)....Presently he is having his hunnie moon in paris .....so dad had to move me back to Florence .. but this time ... it was bad ... i mean really bad...I was restricted, to being tutor in English .. speaking Italian was forbidden by dad ... and more to it .. i was sent to a boarding school again.... you know the look of it ..lol... bullies .. of all sought .. but thank goodness I came out of it..."".What is your home country?"" for my home country ... i was born and breed in greece ..but spent most of my life ..in florence italy .


After many years .. i met Juliet my late fiancée, who was from Paraguay…. and the mother of my lil girl...in Paris....(then she used to wait on me ..in one of those hotel I lodged in)..we moved over to the states(that’s Florida )..about the same year Ericka was born...then something happened ...Juliet ..that’s my fiancée...got news from ..Paraguay that her father, and 3 brother lost their life ..fishing ..she got devasted ....took to drugs…. I mean coke ...Then I was on a business trip to Iraq...when I came back, I got the news too ..and then things actually changed ....i mean her emotional life.. she kept hiding it from me and I was too busy to notice (then I was so occupied with a contract) ...when I realized that ..i tried putting everything aside ...and also I tried putting her thru the rehabilitation process. but nothing came out of it (she was determined to destroy herself )..i still kept doing wat I had to do .. i mean protecting and loving her ..but she chose her own fate.....on one of those days ,i called her to explain to her ;that what she was doing wont do no good ..that we’ve got a kid ..and we sud just focus bringing her up....whatever I said that got her mad at me ..still haunts me till date .....but I know that ..from the very start of our relationship… I tried everything humanly ...to show her how much I loved her ....she just left ..i mean walked out ..still under the influence of drug ...took the key to one of my hummer 2..and drove out...that’s was Nov 2010.....After a few hours (you know… couples have lil misunderstanding ...and after a few hours they get together again)..i tried calling her on the phone ..to beg her ..to tell her that ..am sorry for anything she thought I said ....but I never knew that would be the last ..i would her from her ...after that day ..i got nervous ..and had called on the security to check for her where about ..i explained everything ..to them .....and they went hunting for her..but nothing came out of it ..later ..thats about 4 days ..after her body was found in the truck she was dead ..i wish I had done something better to get her out of it ..it was like hell was let lose ...she just left me ...left poor lil gal ...and I was almost driven the same way she was ..but ..thank goodness ..i saw that look in my lil gals eyes .it was like she was telling me ' dad dont worry about that ..we are going make it together...and that how we’ve been coping

[ericka]

Benito Christiano is also Eric Carlos aka Cayo Alejandro

Eric Carlos (Stolen photograph already posted in this thread)

Cayo Alejandro (Stolen photograph already posted in this thread)

Benito Christiano - please note that Benito and Eric are wearing the same shorts in their pictures

(Stolen photograph already posted in this thread)

[The Wild Geese]

ericka wrote
The pictures of this man are not stolen - he sent me a picture of himself to prove who he was as Eric Carlos.

Don't get confused here. You have different email addresses using the same photos. As you can understand these mugus are lazy. Yes it can be that there are different scammers using the same set of photos or it can be that it is the same mugu using different names and email addresses. The only true here is that, the person in the picture is also a victim, who knows nothing about his pictures being abused by these scammers. Also the sad thing is that, the real man on the photo knows nothing about you.
For you to understand better. If I tell you that my name is for ex. Siv Jensen, then I will send you photos of Siv Jensen (which I can get from the net),to prove to you that I am Siv Jensen. Will you believe then that I am Siv Jensen based on the photos I sent you? Come on, use your common sense! This is an easy yes or no question.

[minerva]

Hi ericka wild geese ir right, plzz listen to her. the picture he use is from stolen picture. and the person at the picture is not scammer. he is just a victim. and dont blame the person at the picture

[ericka]

Please look at the picture Eric sent to me last friday - it is the same man.



This was sent to me to prove that he is real so I would send him $7000.00

This man is all over the place as himself. He is actually from New York wearing a NJ Devils sweatshirt - notice the plate on the hummer in the backround (Stolen photograph already posted in this thread)