Cayo Alejandro - aka Eric john Carlos - simplecaring dad on match.com
here is the same email I got from him
he is the same man he sent me photos as well of himself with the same child
this ended with him asking me for money to help get his injured daughter air lifted out of the bakassi peninusula
Hello little about my self
TO: (Mail address deleted)
Message flagged Friday, April 22, 2011
Hello mia senorita .. lol... How are u doing?... Thanks for the email.. ...i just thought i sud write a lil about myself
...lol....for myself as u know am Eric as you know ...a single dad ...who has been thru the worst and best times of life ...i know you might be wondering ..yep...life used to be very interesting ...and it was all about being jolly ...partying ...friends all around ...till I lost my fiancée. about a year ago...it was like hell would let loose ..i never imagined I would come out of it ....I mean we had a daughter...and I, as a business man ...who was always traveling ...couldn’t just cope with the loose ...but thanks goodness….not just that am coping ..my lil girl Ericka .....just 3+ is coping and I must say she is the reason for my present existence ....and I believe that the memories of her mom should be waning by now ....
if i might ask ...what happened btw ur ex and ur self ?...it must be hectic and emotionally depression ..i know what it feels like ..i mean after those times its been traumatic...and its just like am coming that chronic depression(thats why i try to occupy my mind with this business thing ...to get my mind of the past )...thank goodness we are coping fine ..I do believe that for a season there is a reason and for that ….whatever happened, happened for a reason.
I just moved to the States after spending most of my life traveling, working (you think my job is exciting right ..lol….nope ...I just use that to get the past off my mind ) .I actually spent most of my time ..in Aussie, Greece and Florence ....one of my favorite hobbies....is traveling ..I don’t mean for business trip ..lol.. I mean for vacs ..and sight seeing ..lol. You might ask what kind of business field am i, I am an Oil mandate who deal with Oil and Gas.
mom died..i was never told ..i never saw her after the time dad took me away ..but wherever she is right now ..i know she is happy ......i grew up in Florence Italia and Greece...that was in my early days...then thing were getting on fine ....suddenly dad took to the act of coming late ..getting drunk...then even went to the extent of beating mom....whatever happened then,Iwas too young to understand ..but what I knew was that dad took me away to the states ...I was sent to a boarding school..then, I didnt like it over there in the states..i had a sworn friend in Florence... Roberto (the guy who actually talked me into the online dating thing ..he has been my major back bone ..and been a friend of all time...)....Presently he is having his hunnie moon in paris .....so dad had to move me back to Florence .. but this time ... it was bad ... i mean really bad...I was restricted, to being tutor in English .. speaking Italian was forbidden by dad ... and more to it .. i was sent to a boarding school again.... you know the look of it ..lol... bullies .. of all sought .. but thank goodness I came out of it..."".What is your home country?"" for my home country ... i was born and breed in greece ..but spent most of my life ..in florence italy .
After many years .. i met Juliet my late fiancée, who was from Paraguay…. and the mother of my lil girl...in Paris....(then she used to wait on me ..in one of those hotel I lodged in)..we moved over to the states(that’s Florida )..about the same year Ericka was born...then something happened ...Juliet ..that’s my fiancée...got news from ..Paraguay that her father, and 3 brother lost their life ..fishing ..she got devasted ....took to drugs…. I mean coke ...Then I was on a business trip to Iraq...when I came back, I got the news too ..and then things actually changed ....i mean her emotional life.. she kept hiding it from me and I was too busy to notice (then I was so occupied with a contract) ...when I realized that ..i tried putting everything aside ...and also I tried putting her thru the rehabilitation process. but nothing came out of it (she was determined to destroy herself )..i still kept doing wat I had to do .. i mean protecting and loving her ..but she chose her own fate.....on one of those days ,i called her to explain to her ;that what she was doing wont do no good ..that we’ve got a kid ..and we sud just focus bringing her up....whatever I said that got her mad at me ..still haunts me till date .....but I know that ..from the very start of our relationship… I tried everything humanly ...to show her how much I loved her ....she just left ..i mean walked out ..still under the influence of drug ...took the key to one of my hummer 2..and drove out...that’s was Nov 2010.....After a few hours (you know… couples have lil misunderstanding ...and after a few hours they get together again)..i tried calling her on the phone ..to beg her ..to tell her that ..am sorry for anything she thought I said ....but I never knew that would be the last ..i would her from her ...after that day ..i got nervous ..and had called on the security to check for her where about ..i explained everything ..to them .....and they went hunting for her..but nothing came out of it ..later ..thats about 4 days ..after her body was found in the truck she was dead ..i wish I had done something better to get her out of it ..it was like hell was let lose ...she just left me ...left poor lil gal ...and I was almost driven the same way she was ..but ..thank goodness ..i saw that look in my lil gals eyes .it was like she was telling me ' dad dont worry about that ..we are going make it together...and that how we’ve been coping
A few months ago....dad called me to visit him...we had a nice get together ..and after a month of being with him.. he died of cardiac arrest...though. …I had this beef (from my early childhood days )with him..i eventually grew to love him in his later days ..thank goodness ..i had a chance to reconcile with ..him and may his soul rest in peace...he was the last of my blood line ..and for me right now ..its just Ericka and I...we've been brothers, sisters, cousin , nephew.. mom.. dad.. child ..and everything to each other.
I live ..on my own with my lil girl...either ..in my house in the London, Montana, Greece or Florence ..but presently ...we just want to call Maryland , home ...but you know the feeling ....its still a house for now till there is that partner to play spades with ....i know what it means to have a monogamous relationship...i understand what it means to have the martial tolerance ..and being able to bear my partner in marriage ...as I believe no one is perfect ..and if the marriage is to stand ...then one must be able to accept the lags of the other partner ..and being able to handle it ...i want to soar ..and grow old with that special woman ...i dont want to live it all a lone ..i want to be a father ..to some kids ...and to be a special one too....i want to hold hands .with her ..and always wake up each morning to look into her her and say something like "heaven ..i thank you for giving me this rare gem ..and not just giving her to me ..thanks for giving me on a platter of gold "..lol(i guess I am day dreaming now..lol)...but for real cutie ..i just like you to know ..my world..which is free and wild ...has a big VACANCY...and I just dream about it getting filled someday .
To conclude, ..am a very simple man ..love nature ..and miss those times when it was the family times thing ...i know someday ..it will come over again ...and I just savor it ...am shy (guess that’s why I prefer the internet dating thing ...and since its said its the way to go now..i just accept it ...lol)..at my leisure time...if am not doing ...the daddy ..girlie thing with my lil gal...you can always find me ..me in my Gym...i love body building ..it was one of my favorite ...and its still is....i hate driving ..lol...i think I prefer flying ..lol...and if you must know my lil secret ....lol...the kitchen is my favorite part of the house ...i love to cook mostly intercontential dishes happens to be my favourites..
I guess you must be sleeping now...must have bored you..lol ....was just trying to be open about my self ...hope to hear from you soon ...and lest I forget..if you have anything to ask feel free and wild to ask whatever you like to ..its a free and wild world ....lol
Hugs and kisess