I'm thinking this will be my last post on this A$$.. he still wants money for his visa
I have no idea of the cost of a visa, but here is the last conversation I had with him.. now all we do is argue and frankly... I'm tired.... he said when I'm gone, he will find a way to still get the visa... that means someone else will fall for his crap.. which is the part that makes me the most upset. I notice that "Nichole" has been back on-line.. but so far no listing on any sites.
He really did do what he said he was going to do... he traveled to Lagos.. and now he's in Abuja.. hadn't heard much for a couple of weeks .. so here goes:
We've been true friends for so long. There have been lots of tears and so much laughter between us. I feel closer to you than anyone else. I've listened and hurt every time you fell in love, longing to be the one in your arms. I may not have been there for you lately to talk you in when you're alone. You listened and cried with me when you found out about the whole truth and you stood by my side through all of it. Now is the time to tell you that the waiting is over.
The love you so desperately seek is here in my arms. You've often say i gnore you.Well i dont i told you in my last mail that am not gonna come online for a very long time because of what am pursuing ,i could never forget you nor i ignore you. Now I'm telling you that you are the one for me. You’re the one I dream about. No one can make me laugh like you, even when I'm knee deep in tears. The reason I've been have been a little distant from you also lately is cos you dont trust me you say those sweet words in my ear but deep down your heart it cries tears, you're afraid of me which made me to feel very un welcome. I've been waiting for you to see the love in my eyes that's only for you. I'll wait forever if that’s how long it takes. I need you. I miss you when you’re gone, and I hurt when you’re sad. I love you,xxxxx, for everything you are. Even though i dont show it enough, all i ever want is for you to take me as i am and not creat an imaginative image of me as a moster, i am human i still love you. I love every little thing about you. I love your cute smile, your magical eyes, and the sound of your voice.
IP Address 184.108.40.206
Location NIGERIA, LAGOS, LAGOS
Latitude, Longitude 6.45306, 3.39583 (6°27'11"E 3°23'45"N)
Connection through VISAFONE COMMUNICATIONS LIMITED
Local Time 14 Aug, 2012 06:22 PM (UTC +01:00)
Net Speed DSL
Area Code –234
I dont know what is wrong with you,i told you everything that am going through here. And all you could do is call it all another lie, thats why you would never truely believe anything i ever tell you again because am tired of trying to make you believe me all you could do is call my effort decietful one. Even though from the very first moment I saw you I knew that we were destined to be together. It has been so long since a woman has captured my attention so fully or made my heart beat the way it did that cool day. Your smile lights up my entire spirit. Your laughter fills me with joy, and your mere presence will warm any room. I have no doubt you are the woman Heaven has made especially for me.
Thank you for the comfortable conversations and for asking me to be yours. Most importantly, thank you for sharing your love and wanting me to be yors forever. No matter how slowly or at what distance our courtship developes, I know standing before God and confessing my heart, was the easiest decision I could have ever made.
Each day that passes makes our love for each other grow stronger. Although I know it’s hard for us to be apart, I know there is nothing that can keep us apart forever. Our desires will continue to stretch across any distance, over every mountain and ocean between us. Nothing can stand between us, and nothing will stop me from meeting you.
You are my future and nothing can ever keep us from our destiny. I miss you more every day. I am here with open arms where you will some day finally arrive... right where you belong.
Email Sender: email@example.com
IP address: 220.127.116.11
IP address country: Nigeria
IP address state: Niger
IP address city: Abuja
IP address latitude: 9.1805
IP address longitude: 7.1793
ISP of this IP: Visafone Communications Limited
Organization: Visafone Communications Limited
Local Time of this IP country: 2012-09-08 02:46
Aug 30 11:50 AM
xxxxx:So... tell me... how have you been these past few weeks?
xxxxxx:I did miss you
kelvex001:i told you it was going to be very busy
kelvex001:i made all my plans known to you
kelvex001:i told you everything
kelvex001:even when am not suppose to
kelvex001:i told you that my plans was for the good of us
kelvex001:but you couldn't trust me
kelvex001:if i wasn't serious with you nor meant any word i wouldnt have this plan
Aug 30 2:52 PM
kelvex001:sorry..i was away
kelvex001:ok so back to the conversation
kelvex001:i said i needed to discuss something with you
xxxxx:Yes, go ahead
kelvex001:its about the traveling i told you aboout
kelvex001:the process is aready started
kelvex001:since all those while have not been here
kelvex001:its because have been runing around in the process
kelvex001:and you no we had a plan
kelvex001:but it seems like am the only one caught up in it
kelvex001:i dont know how to explain this to you
xxxxx:Just tell me what it is Kevin
kelvex001:am now int he middle of the visa process
kelvex001:and you know they give time to meet up with the fees
kelvex001:have given them what i have
kelvex001:have submited my passport to the embassy
xxxxx:so are you going to the UK?
xxxxx:ok, what are you going to do there and how long will you be staying there?
kelvex001:have you forgotten our plan
kelvex001:i was to go there first to make things comfortable before you could come
xxxxx:ok... we never really made plans set in stone... we talked about a couple of differnt things... it's why I asked
kelvex001:is the plan good?
xxxxx:You never really explained that part to me.. so thank you for telling me what you were thinking and planning. At least I have an idea of what to think.
xxxxx:Yes... I like it
kelvex001:but we need to work on it
kelvex001:cos its already on the motion
kelvex001:you know how these things work if i dont meet up to the time the embassy gave me i will lose the visa and wont be able to apply till who knows when
xxxxx:so please tell me what is to happen so you can get the visa..
Aug 30 3:19 PM
kelvex001:i need funds
xxxxx:I figured so... but what is the dead line and what are the funds you need? Because you know I might not be able to help with much.. and it's not because I don't want to... it's just hard for me to.. so tell me ok
kelvex001:sweetie i dont want to impose it on you
kelvex001:how much can you help with
kelvex001:it takes two weeks
xxxxx:I don't even know what I could help with right now...
xxxxx:Kevin, how much does it cost for this visa? I am curious... because you know I will have to apply for one here as well
kelvex001:its up to 4 to 5k usd
kelvex001:sweetie i hope you know that am not trying to fake you
kelvex001:this is real life
xxxxx:I understand... and I don't have that kind of money any where sweetie... I really don't... it is just not possible for me.
kelvex001:i understand am not saying its today or you should pay it all
kelvex001:you're entitle to your own opinion about this
xxxxx:Yes, I know... I do appreciate it... If I could, I would...
kelvex001:the hardest part of a man's life is foundation
kelvex001:if i get to the uk i will work out enough for us in two months
kelvex001:i just want you to help me make sure i get there
kelvex001:all am asking is for you to make a sacrifice for me
xxxxx:Yes, I know I did... but Kevin.... it takes me over a year to earn that kind of money... it took me years to save that... I just want you to understand it's not been easy.. and I made such a big sacrifice to you already... by doing what I did... and you make me feel guilty with what you are trying to ask... because now I really don't have a way to help you.
kelvex001:maybe i haven't told you this before but i have plans of paying you back everything i took from you
kelvex001:its not because you asked for it or that am feeling guilty but for the fact to make everything equal that's how my culture is
kelvex001:i hope you know that am with you
kelvex001:so how much can you raise
xxxxx:You know before... I maxed out every single bit of credit I could find to help you... now I just don't have it.. I've been late with paying some bills every month... I'm just trying to make you see that no matter how much I would like to... it's just not possible right now
kelvex001:i dont want to give you ideas
kelvex001:of what to do
kelvex001:its best i leave it to you
kelvex001:you said earlier that not much you could come up with
kelvex001:but now am not understanding you like you're saying you can't help at all
xxxxx:that's right... because what I could help with Kevin wouldn't even be 1% of what you need.
kelvex001:how much say it
xxxxx:It's why I say... I couldn't be much help at all... you need thousands... I couldn't even do a couple hundred
xxxxx:I just did...
xxxxx:Kevin right now I wouldn't even have two hundred dollars to help you..
xxxxx:what does it matter? If I sent you a hundred... it wouldn't help
xxxxxI don't know why you push me like this..... it just makes me sad and it makes me feel really bad that you will never understand , I do what I say I can do and nothing is ever good enough.
kelvex001:see the reason i always dont like getting in deep conversation with you
kelvex001:because its either you feel guilty nor you feel am puching you
xxxxx:it's because you don't accept what I tell you.. you make me feel used... because you say I need to make this sacrific for you... what I did before meant nothing...the sacrifices I made for you just don't seem to mean anything.... you ask me for more and more and I proved my love for you over and over...I just don't get it....
kelvex001:you know what never mind
kelvex001:am not gonna ask you again
xxxxx:What do you want me to do... if I say I don't have anything to help you with? Would you like me to sell myself on the streets? I try to tell you what it's like for me... but it is like you don't care... and you wonder why I am so confused..
kelvex001:Love sees with the heart and not with mind.
kelvex001:i do care
kelvex001:and i understand what you told me
kelvex001:but am still trying to explain my situation to you
kelvex001:its no childs play
kelvex001:if this passes me it will affect me so much physicaly and mentally
Aug 30 4:19 PM
kelvex001:i want to suggest somethng
kelvex001:you might get upset but its just a suggestion
kelvex001:do you have jewery
kelvex001:i no its not right but please forgive me
kelvex001:am just trying to meet up with the embassy
xxxxx:No, I don't wear a lot of jewelry... I don't have any jewelry that is worth anything
xxxxx:As you can see by my photos... I'm a pretty simple person
kelvex001:i see that you have a beautiful personality
kelvex001:sweetie nothing at all we could sell to raise money
xxxxx:I don't know... what it would be... I don't own anything worth that much... even a couple of items.. I don't know what it would be.. I really don't.. I'm just not in to those kinds of things
kelvex001:baby but can you try
kelvex001:i dont want it to look like am forcing you or using you
kelvex001:if you dont like that idea you say no
kelvex001:i believe things will be ok when i get to uk
kelvex001:but i need to get the visa first
I have researched many of his friends on FB, and came upon a few profiles and photos of his little gang.. I don’t know if it would be a benefit to post those here. Maybe someone could let me know.
*ALSO* I hope that you all that read this can see.... that they never give up asking for money... this is what happens when you continue contact. I’m glad I was able to remain strong and not fall for it yet again..its been a long year...I’m ready for a permanent vacation from this one**