James Chandler,
j_chandler998@yahoo.com
OkCupid
Username: Chandler_101
56 / M / Straight / Single
Baltimore, Maryland
My self-summary
I am a genuinely kind and nice person with a great sense of humor (I can make almost anyone laugh), but I also have an intellectual side. I'm smart and I love to have out of the box intellectual discussions with someone who can really make me think and I've been told that I'm pretty good at providing the same. My friends say that I have a quiet confidence, am even tempered and just really laid back and easy to get along with. They say I would be a really great catch for someone... I guess that's why they are my friends! I'm a very good listener... not just hearing, but really listening to someone. Every day, I try to make the world a little better place. I do believe that small acts of kindness can make a big difference in someone's life.
What I’m doing with my life
My desire is to meet a beautiful, sensitive, sensuous, warm, assertive single woman who wants a friend. My interpretation of a friend is one to whom you can pour out all the contents of your heart, chaff and grain together, knowing that the beautifuleness of hands will take it all, shift it, keep that which is worth keeping and, with a breath of kindness, blow the rest away. I thank you in advance for allowing me to be that kind of friend to you. I am looking for a special, loving relationship with a unique Woman who is affectionate, beautiful, with a shapely figure, sincere, easy going, with interests and characteristics similar to mine and even closer. Someone who wants a meaningful, serious, long-term relationship, not just a few dates. Are you that special Woman? I know you are. I am looking for someone who has a great sense of humor and big heart, is curious about new things that would like to share new experiences or old habits. I am looking for someone who believes that a true intimate partner looks out for the other and vice.. While navigating life together, we are caring and concerned for each others well-being because we make each other so happy and we love each other very much.Looking for a serious long-term relationship with someone who posesses soft character and is goal-oriented. She must love the Lord with all of her heart,then I know she will love me with all her heart.
I’m really good at
I'm really good at my job and I take responsibility very seriously. If I say I'm going to do something, I'll move heaven and earth to try and make sure it happens I also think I'm a really good listener and communicator.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Rear Window, an Alfred Hitchcock oldie, is one of my favorites. Music=mostly country, but I enjoy most anything except heavy metal where they are screaming.....Food=I live to eat. I enjoy healthy organic veggies, grass-fed meat, raw milk- I am a simple cook with usually some good meat as the main dish and a couple of sides of veggies. I cook the meat in one of the pottery casseroles I made and it turns out very juicy and tasty. Love cheesecake.....I like to go to plays and musicals sometimes and live performances, especially comedy.
The six things I could never do without
1. my son/family
2. water-to drink and exercise in
3. a good woman
4. meaningful work
5. a toothbrush
6. jeans and t-shirts
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What my perfect mate would be like and would we be compatible for along time; my future
On a typical Friday night I am
Having dinner with friends... or happy hour. Sometimes I'm playing tennis if I have a match. . Sometimes I'm at home.
He’s looking for
Girls who like guys
Ages 50–60
Located anywhere
For new friends, long-term dating
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From: Chandler_101
Good evening sunshine!!How are you doing today??I hope you're great...Anyway I've read your profile and would want to contact you for a friendship..Do you care to chat????
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From: Chandler_101
Nice to meet you , xxxx.. I am James and new to this dating site, I was invited by a friend of mine who live in California and just got married to the lady he met here. so I decided to try and see if I could find someone caring,understanding and trustworthy lady to be friends with and see where it lead us to as i would like to relocate to where my partner decided us to live. so let's chat and see where this lead us to.
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From: Chandler_101
I am Top advisor to Army Chief of Staff on all enlisted matters in the US Army and I have been in the Army for 30 years now.. Am a Sargent Major in the US Army. what about you?
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From: Chandler_101
No, since i joined this site i haven't find anyone interesting yet, I'm hoping to meet someone who is very caring,loving,sharing,understanding,loyal,honest and respectful woman to spend the rest of my life with...I would like someone that will love and respect me for who I am, that likes to hold my hand and surprize me with a little kiss when I least expect it,or give me a wink from across the room to let me know she's thinking about me or give me a call just to let me know she's thinking about me... Because I will be doing the same.. I would love someone who is fun to be around, likes to laugh, joke around, enjoy being outdoors going for long romantic walks, enjoys looking at the stars at night, and watching the sun set and rise over the ocean. I am looking for someone that enjoys the simple things in life, just as I do. I would like to meet someone special that I can grow old with, and that we can always look into each other's eyes and know that the love between us is just as wonderful and exciting as the day we met.
I'm really looking for Someone Honest,Caring,Romantic,Kind,Posses Great Sense of Humour,Understanding,Intelligent,Respectful and Trust Worthy. I like fishing,camping,reading,going to the movies,hanging around with friends,cracking jokes,listening to music,dancing, and also spending time with someone interesting. I am a person who looks beyond what may be the obvious. Characteris worth more than flashiness.. I am a person who appreciates honesty and a great sense of humor. I love to laugh and to enjoy the simple things in life. I would appreciate a person who has a good sense of who he is and a sense of direction about where he wants to be. I can appreciate a man who sees a woman as a friend and a partner.I love old movies and old songs. I love jazz and the arts. I know that men and women all have an inner child within and hat is why I would appreciate days filled with fun and laughter. I respect and adhere to taking care of business in life--family, work, community, etc... what about you ?? Do you have any children /grand kids who lives with you??
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From: Chandler_101
Wow , that really sounds good to me, Its been a while since i have been with a woman and i would like you to be my friend and see where this lead us to. I came across your profile because you sound like someone i have known for very long time , and everything seems we are looking for the same thing..
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Chandler_101
, it would be great to know something more about you , xxxx.. Do you care to chat on (Hangout) , its private and safe there and I wish we can chat and know something more about our self.??
Okay.. I have Yahoo account but its been a while since I used it. Here is my Yahoo ID :
j_chandler998@yahoo.com
We were not foolish to fall in love with them. Our mistake was not knowing that we fell in love with fools.