The topic change is a good idea although I think I would prefer the last topic
I have no reason to doubt you are who you say and I see no good reason why you would lie about it anyway, yes, scammers join here to profess their fake persona's innocence but at no time have you tried to tell us anything that would indicate you are telling lies.
As far as anybody here should be concerned, you are as much a victim as anybody else and deserve the same respect as any other (non scamming) member here.
If anybody is deliberately baiting another member or showing a lack of respect then it will not make for happy mods or admins.
If it is happening, it needs to stop NOW
@Jorge, "Miss" Frumpy may not be so scary when you stop refering to him as "her"

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