can I tell you how I overcome my bad experience.
first time was a shock, disappointment, sadness, then came the anger, then the desire for revenge, and punishment.
When I came to the moment when I wanted to cause pain to my scammer that he must suffer and feel pain as his victim. I stopped. and my mind took control with, no more emotions.
I have not worked the same as he,
because I did not like him.
then I was proud because I was strong and I did not become a bad person, but better.
and better people react differently-
that man , there, on the other side chatroom, ,He is a fake person , that is not even one person, but three, false image, false words, and a Third man, realistic, rear, in the shadow of all
shock is, when you realize that you're a puppet on a string, because, we, for him, a scammer, we are nothing but puppets on a string.
Who? Who wants this to be.
I also asked myself what is wrong with me?
I am only human being who made a mistake, own mistake, admit it as a mistake and nothing more, and you go forward, perhaps you ashamed of it, but sin is human, and try to try, never again to repeat the same mistake, you realize that smart people learn from the mistakes of others , stupid people to learn from their own. So, I learned, do not do more mistakes, and so I became a little more cautious, therefore, a little more clever
and suddenly you have a goal to help others to learn, even from your mistakes
makes you happy, makes you even better,
and this frees you from the grief and pain, if you can help others not do the mistakes that you did.
when I became a member of the RS, thanks for this site, this was not just to tell my story, close the profile and email, and try to forget everything
NO, it becomes my obligation to help others to help not to become puppets on a string, who will lose their confidence, their own will, money, pride, peace everyday, and. much more .. maybe some are never the same as before .. as the loss of personality, who so desires? No one.
so I overcame my anger, perhaps embarrassed and feel stupid,. sometimes I play the game. I pretend, as I am a potential victim, I know a scammer, and sent to the Rs, they know how to proceed.
Maybe not fair, maybe not a good idea, maybe not an adult, maybe not the right way, must play the game, but it works.
in what way to stop a scammers, just as their method?
and the scammers has to be stopped, right?
so I am out of my bad experience, did a good experience. each has its own way, this is my way.
P.S.and please excuse my bad English. nice day to all