I can't figure out how to post pictures but I received 4 pictures,Two with white shirts one with his son at the beach, and one full length picture with him in a turquoise polo shirt. . They are all duplicates of what I've seen on here
Name: Martin Slayton
47yrs, 6' 1"
-communicated 7/20/12 via OK Cupid yahoo messenger and email: email@example.com
-Independent Contractor specializing in Motels, Hotels,and offices. Also a supplier of construction materials for work sites.
Originally from Germany, an only child. His father died of a drowning accident when he was 18. Moved to Britain with his mother from age 18 to 28 then moved to Los Angeles. Just recently moved to Lancaster PA as Los Angeles was too expensive after his divorce 8 months ago. (He was able to mention several bars in the area that he liked when I quizzed him) His ex wife moved to Asia with his best friend with whom she had an affair. He has a 5 year old son (“junr”) who lives with his mother in Britain. His mother has a brain Tumor. He would often text in the middle of the night asking what I was doing…Sleeping! I asked several times if he was in the town that he reported as his time schedule was odd. Rarely heard from him in the evening. ( he said often that he fell asleep) After we had communicated for a week and he was reluctant to meet with me, (Wanted to ask a few more questions first) he told me that he received a call from his mother in Britain that her tumor was worse and she needed surgery. He left for Britain in the next two days and said he would call (wouldn’t call however when he was in the same town as me). He did call three times since he’s been there. Very heavy accent, difficult to understand. Phone number 2348083381848.. Repeatedly asked for money to pay for his mother’s surgery. I questioned this with my understanding of socialized medicine. Sent me a love letter before asking for money the first time. He has stopped communications after again I’ve said no to giving money. See below text example.
Hi how's work going with you ? Like the idea we meeting for a coffee but I would like asking you some few questions before then let me know when you will be online. Am home all day today and tomorrow. Chat with you later !!!
Good morning sweetie how are you and how's ur day at the beach like ? Babe I want you to know how much I sincerely love the times we've spent communicating. It means so much to me. It truly seems like I've known u forever and i honestly can't imagine life without you now. There will be no looking back, no second thoughts and no regrets. I want u and need only u and that love will only grow stronger.
Do not be scared my love. Sometimes life hits you with unexpected things that take you totally by surprise. All i can say is you're the best surprise life has given me and your capacity for love, caring, and understanding never ceases to amaze me. I've truly been blessed by finding you and I'll never let you go my woman! Wish you a fun productive day. Chat with you later !
IM Aug 2, 2012 1:58:08 PM
alliwantisubabe44: Sorry the reception is kinda bad outside
me: What did you do today?
alliwantisubabe44: I tried selling some few stuffs so u can raise funds but I still can't come up with the rest $$$ I need
alliwantisubabe44: Its so hard don't know what to think off
me: I guess your mom doesn't have funds for this either? How much is still needed?
alliwantisubabe44: No she doesn't she stopped working for couple of month now, I still need to come up with 1900usd
me: How about putting it on credit?
alliwantisubabe44: Do you think u could help me raise any $$$ don't mind what u can come up with
alliwantisubabe44: I don't have a credit card I exhausted all I have babe both in account and credit
me: Not sure how I would do that
alliwantisubabe44: My credit card is debited as we speak now
me: I thought health care was paid for in England. Socialized medicine.. Is there public and private care?
me: I don't want you to go into debt by calling. Is messaging costing you as well?
alliwantisubabe44: She's in a private hospital here in manchester
alliwantisubabe44: Its okay I call when am lonely and bored, actually I was looking at ur frame taught I could ear ur voice
me: Is there a choice to be public or private? It's not fair that this should put you under if there is another option.
alliwantisubabe44: Babe I prefer a private hospital than public
me: That's nice of you for calling
alliwantisubabe44: They assured me she will be fine and okay
alliwantisubabe44: The Doc is operating her surgery is from india anyway
me: I'm glad for that. What is the Dr. name?
alliwantisubabe44: Babe I deeply understand how hard it is for u out there but I wouldn't mind if u can support me so I can come close with the rest funds. I promise to pay u back once I get home am a God fearing man and I have no reason to hurt u or not to pay back cause I know the Lord will surely punish me for that
me: Have you shared your dilemma with him? Any discount available?
alliwantisubabe44: The Doc name is Dr. Mandolin Aladdin
me: I am in the same predicament that you are. I would have to be in debt for it with no extra funds to pay it either. It's not that I don't feel for your situation.
alliwantisubabe44: Have done that but he says there's nothing he can do the hospital doesn't belongs to him and he's working here also
me: And you've talked to the hospital about it? A payment plan or something? I'm not trying to give advice just trying to brainstorm with you
IM Aug 2, 2012 2:14:49 PM
alliwantisubabe44: Babe if my situation is gona get u in debt please assist me cause I know I will pay back once I get home what matters is saving my mom life
alliwantisubabe44: Babe I can pay part of the funds but the full payment has to be paid before she leaves the hospital as soon as her surgery is done
me: How can you manage at home if you have exhausted everything?
alliwantisubabe44: I didn't want to tell u this cause I got a lot on my head. I won the contract which I was expecting
me: What do other people do who don't have the funds?
me: Congratulations to you
alliwantisubabe44: I get to leave 29-08
me: You will be there for a month?
alliwantisubabe44: But I need to get home so I can sign papers and doc before they hand me part of the contract money for my working capital there. Yes I will be gone for 3weeks
me: What is the contract?
alliwantisubabe44: I should be back to the states before 20th so I can start making plans and have a lil time to spend with u before I leave
me: Is it local or will you be traveling?
alliwantisubabe44: Designing 300motels and assisting with the building construction there
alliwantisubabe44: south africa
alliwantisubabe44: Have been praying for this for a very long time sweetie
me: That's wonderful for you! Will you live there?
alliwantisubabe44: I will be given an apartment down there while I work
alliwantisubabe44: Will be back to the states once the contract is completed
me: So a long project. A year or more?
alliwantisubabe44: Babe the contract last for 3week not a year
alliwantisubabe44: I will be gone 29-08 back ending of september
alliwantisubabe44: But we spending time once I get back home from manchester before I leave for south africa
me: Wow How can all that be done in 3 weeks? What will you be doing to the motels?
alliwantisubabe44: Its already built I just have to fix the interior designing in each rooms, the motel has to be opened by 30th Oct so I have to hasten up
alliwantisubabe44: I will be getting some workers over there anyway
alliwantisubabe44: To assist me
alliwantisubabe44: Would be nice if we both go together, what do u think ?
alliwantisubabe44: Have not been there heard its nice and beautiful over there thou...
Martin. alliwantisubabe44: Pretty please when do u think u can assist me out we leave monday next week, I need to pile up funds and see what i have before tuesday
me: I can't answer any different way Martin. I'm sorry.
alliwantisubabe44: What do u mean ?
me: I am receiving the same message about sending funds but I've answered that I don't have it to give. Are you sending them to me by mistake?
alliwantisubabe44: You never answered that
alliwantisubabe44: You said I was only going to get you in debt if u did told u I was gona pay u back if u can raise me with something and u asked how I was gona pay back. I explained all to you and u said okay
me: Oh perhaps you didn't get that answer before you lost reception the last to
alliwantisubabe44: Its alright never mind
me: I was just asking questions Martin. I really don't have it. I can't get into more debt either.
IM Aug 2, 2012 5:11:12 PM
alliwantisubabe44: I see well thanks for advice and prayers I promise not to share such with you
alliwantisubabe44: I will sort it out myself its my mom anyway so u don't know how I fell
alliwantisubabe44: I got to go cuddle my son to bed
alliwantisubabe44: Catch as much fun as u can
alliwantisubabe44: Talk later