Paul Colin - P_27c@yahoo.com

[Kahuila5483]

Bruce is flying to Hawaii to meet me in person in mid May next month after they finish their part of the work to be with me and start our new life together. We are in love with each other. He is an Independent Contractor working with Shell Exxon Mobile in the UK as the Chief Engineer of Construction.

We are in contact with each other through emails and text messages and talk by cell phones. I have both his work phone and home phone in the UK.

When he emails me it comes from his work phone and it say Royal Dutch Shell Wireless Device.

I am actually with the true Bruce Millston and the scammers are using his pictures and his email by hacking into his email account. There are some pictures that they have not used that he has sent to me recently.They are not posted on this RS website.

Now he is in Florida and has completed the erection of the Derricks which is his expertise Hositing & Rigging and is now doing the underwater exploration which is the most dangerous part of the job. He is actually in charge of the whole project.

When I said he cleans the pipelines it is in the UK. He goes with his crew to clean up an small spills that may happen.

The derricks that have been erected recently and are 3 days off shore of Florida its way out there.

Florida has been fighting oil rigs for years but passed a bill to have them offshore and away from the shoreline. Check the internet it confirms. it.

I will keep everyone updated on what is going on...I will let you know when he is here with me in Hawaii and maybe we will post a picture on this website to let everyone know that it is him the real Bruce Millston and it's the other guys that are the imposters. LOL

[Kahuila5483]

Well, it's not looking good. I have had several calls of desperation about equipment that has broken down and cost $$$$$ to get another one...he didn't come out and ask me for it...but kept crying on the phone..acting all desperate and not knowing what to do... Wow I feel sick inside. I told him I can't do anything to help him and that I understood his situation.

I will cry for long time...he stole my heart, broke it and turned it into dust.. I bleed with love for him..how pathetic is that...I bleed...

I really have to say thank you for this website....love blinds a person something I already knew but was in denial, this kind of deception is really disgusting...this person must be dead inside to be able to do this to some one. Yet he seems so full of love and passion..it makes no sense to me.

I appreciate the understanding of most people on this website. They are trying to help women like myself who have been duped by this animals. That's the only word for these men they are animals waiting to devour warm loving, caring human beings.

When I have purged myself of this man. I will post his emails, telephone numbers, and other pictures he sent to me that is not on this website. I do this because he needs to be stopped so can't hurt another person again.

[yenyen2707]

Dear Kahuila,

My heart goes to you. I understand how you feel. The scenario of some equipments broke and he needs to replace it had been shoved to my face a couple of times by "Melvis Venters". He too cried on the phone sounding desperate and confused. His tactic is to seek our sympathy and pity so that we will try to find ways to help him to make things easier so that he could finish his job and come to meet us.

Please dont hurt yourself by crying too hard.

Did you see him on webcam? If you did and he's the same person on these pictures here, then we really faced the same person whatever his name is! He's a scumbag for sure.

Take care yourself.

[yenyen2707]

Some of the poems by "Melvis Venter"....btw, Kahuila, I went to search 'Bruce Millston" on facebook, he had put his status as "in relationship with xxx" maybe just a made-up person to fool others. name of one real person deleted. FF.

On Tue, Sep 6, 2011 at 5:37 PM, Melvis Venters <melvisventers@yahoo.com> wrote:
If only you knew,
how my heart overflows with love for you.
If only you could see
the way you fill my hopes and dreams.
You're the owner of my heart,
the ruler supreme.
Even in the dark of night,
I've only to think about you
to feel your loving light
and from this world I drift
feeling as if
I'll never touch the ground again...
If only you knew.

If only you could guess
how I hear your voice when others speak;
for you hold the key to my happiness,
and it's always you my soul seeks.
If only you could feel,
how your very presence
has the power to heal,
all the wounds inside me.
You've made me abandon
the pain of yesterday,
and you've shown me
that the past can no longer
stand in the way
of what I hope to achieve...

If only you knew.
If only you could realize
the way you've shown me
that it's better to give
than to take,
and whatever I do,
I do for your sake.
I'm willing to give you my all
and expect nothing in return.
But, oh how I yearn
for you...
if only you knew.

Melvis.

I don't just dream about you--
thoughts of you bring heaven
to my every waking hour.

I don't just want to be with you--
I want to feel all the fire of
existence that I feel when you're near.

I don't just need your kiss--
I hunger for it the way a spring rose
craves sunshine and rain.

I'm not just in love with you--
I'm absolutely crazy about you.

You're the best thing that
ever happened to me,
and I'm certain that what we
share will only keep getting better.

Melvis.

In my dreams,
I try to see you
and take in
your whole expanse--
from the beauty
of your smile
to the depths
of your soul
where an ocean swells.
I'm rebuilding you
out of pieces of clay,
with some illogical hope
that you'll materialize
out of the darkness.
The heart alone
can perceive these
dimly lit realities,
and trade longing
for patience.
And I'm living
on the hope
borne of these
dreams of you,
that we'll be
together soon.

Melvis.

I can't live without you.
I would breathe the air,
and my heart would beat,
but I would not feel the joy of life.
My dreams would be lost
like a leaf carted away by a storm.
I would gaze at the stars
without appreciating the
way they light up the sky.
I would pass the roses in bloom
without noticing their beauty.
I would no longer look forward
to each sunset and each dawn.
I would be broken,
never to be mended again.
Winter would own my heart;
its icy breath would steal
the warmth in my soul,
because I could not smile
without your love.
I could not know laughter
or happiness.
If you were lost to me,
I'd have no reason to try,
no reason to be.
You are my prayer,
my shelter from
hopelessness and despair,
my sunshine, my light,
my lazy days,
my peaceful nights,
and only you can keep the
spark in my soul burning bright.

Melvis.

[firefly]

Ladies, talking about this situation it´s help. But it will be more useful for you and for other potential victims if both of you just try to post the email adresses used by this person, to see if is the same or not. Alot of scammers can use the same set of stolen pictures and, for this reason, we need to find some clear details to made a difference between them. Email adress used and the header (see viewtopic.php?t=10910) are the best ways to simplify those things.

[yenyen2707]

hello Firefly,

I downloaded Mozilla Thunderbird but I still dont know how it works. I'm using Gmail account and "Melvis Venters" sent me email using Yahoo mail. Please guide me as how this work. Thanks.

[Kahuila5483]

Hi Firefly...

We understand that you want to catch this guy. But, what you need to realize is that Yen Yen and I we share the same PAIN.. It helps us to get it out and compare certain similarities. The poems are not the same they are really different from the ones he sent to me... It's kind of weird...

He is still emailing and text me and calling...I think he knows that I have figured it out because I haven't been tentative and responsive like I was before. His email is a Yahoo account. Like I said in my previous post...I will give up his email address and all of the numbers he uses...

I don't go back my word and I say If he tells me he can't make it to Hawaii before the month of May is up.!

It will be over and I will have the pleasure of telling not to bother coming to Hawaii and break his heart instead...I hope he cries like a baby!

Then you can do your research and try to hunt him down like the animal he is.

[minerva]

i think FF dont mind if both of you sharing the experiance and mail to compared. what FF mean beside texts mail we also need and IP and email ID so it will come up in google search and will safe other potential vic.

for get the IP of every mail that he send to you both click the link that FF had add in her post

good luck and be strong gals you not alone in this matter.

[Kahuila5483]

Thank you Minerva..he is added as a friend on my FB account.

He is on my FB page as my BF and has put me as his GF on his page. My friends see him and my family sees him. He actually offered my son...who is an adult..a job doing what he does on the rigs...can you believe that one!

My son's are going to be so angry at this guy and will not want me on any dating websites Christian Mingle or another other one. I can't blame them. At first they though he was a scamming and not who he said he was. But eventually starting believing him toe. He is so good at what he does; con people.

I appreciate your understanding both myself and yenyen and what we have been through.

Kahuila

[Kahuila5483]

Here is the information on the guy Bruce Millston:
1. Bruce Millston New Castle UK
2. Works for Shell Dutch Exxon Mobile as Chief Engineer of Construction Independent Contractor
3. He is on FB and has 2 profiles that looks like fake profiles
4. Last time he contacted me was Friday, May 4th @ 1:30 am Hawaii time
5. He has supposedly been working on the Derricks and Pipelines off shore in Florida since April 9th
6. He is originally from Auorga CA
7. Has been in the UK for 5 years
Here is all of his telephone contact numbers and email address:
1. UK 447-045-734-397 Landline ---- REDIRECT HE CAN BE ANY WHERE AROUND THE WORLD,M
2. UK 447-024-019-215 work ------ REDIRECT
3. CA 747-222-6296 Landline
bruce57488@yahoo.com

The CA number has been disconnected as of today and same with the UK numbers. He knows he is in trouble now.

Here are his alias online names:
Melvis Venters
William Landum
Paul Colin
Davis Arnold
Nelson Jeffery

I don't know why I feel bad about doing this, but I have to keep my word on this one. I feel sad.

[Kahuila5483]

I forgot...he removed his FB account under Bruce Millston.

Unreal.

[The Wild Geese]

Yes Kahuila5483, your lover boy is unreal. Your feelings for him was real but it was not mutual. He needed you because of the prospect of money. Your hard earned money. He is heartless and evil. Take care of yourself now. You will heal. Remember, it is easy to forget him because he is just a part of a nightmare. Nightmares will be forgotten as soon as you wake up. Real people and real love ones lost forever hurts deeply and the pains are almost unbearable.

[Kahuila5483]

Yes Wild Geese...so true that is what I told him the last time we spoke about a week ago. That he was not real and that he was bad dream...and I woke up..

These guys just don't give up even if you tell them you have no money...their egos are so big they can't stand rejection. I told him to leave me alone don't call me anymore and that I no longer want to have anything to do with him. He hasn't called so he gets..he just moved on to the next person.

Thank you for you post...life goes on with real people in my life that love and truly care about me.

[Ruffled Feathers]

Hello Kahuila5483,
I have just finished reading your posts and I understand your heartbreak, however you will become stronger due to this experience and posting as much information as you can. The more you post about the evil devil, the stronger you will become, I can promise you that.
They are the devils we never want to know, but somehow or another they find their way into our life and hurt us, but we are stronger than they are. They sit at little internet shops, sending emails to whomever might answer them, they are nothing, they only want the bank account that might go with you. They don't care about anything more than money, money is the object, they have to pay the silly little site they are on and by not sending any money they move on pretty quickly.
Stay away from him and have no further contact, they give up after a week or so when they realize money won't be coming their way. However, that being said, now you have to look after yourself, plenty of rest, eating properly and ignoring all contact with this devil, block him in everyway you can, email, phone etc.
Go to the healing process and you will find there are many people ready and willing to hear your story and help you through this maze of being lied to. The betryal part is the worst, but, I promise you will come through this being a much stronger person, please take my word for what it means,,,you will be OK. Contact me anytime you want, via PM or whatever, my name is Ruffled Feathers, known as RF also.
Please, right now just take really good care of YOU

[Ruffled Feathers]

Kahuila5483
Hello Again,
I meant to add to my previous reply to you, that the more you can post about this scammer, the better you will feel. You need to post his IP, all information from the headers on his emails, and emails that he sent to you or Im chats where he asks for money. If you have pictures of him, post those as well. It helps to warn possible new victims of what this person is - he is a scammer.
The more information you can post the better off you will be.
Take care, and understand that everyone is here to help you in the recovery process.
RF