Postby Ruffled Feathers » Tue May 08, 2012 5:54 pm
Hello Again Carlottak,
I just read your last post, please stay away from this man and do not go looking for him. He will only catch up to you again and try to hurt you again.
This is a very unhealthy way to get back on your feet and start to heal. I know you are still in the stage of wanting to know more and hoping that what happened to you isn't really true, however, it is true and now you MUST make up your mind to stay away, and have absolutely no further contact with him, not even in a picture. By doing this you are only hurting yourself further and it will take you that much longer to recover from the heartbreak of what he did.
I know it's a difficult situation, recovery isn't easy, but you will recover over time and you must allow yourself that time.
Also the sooner you post all your information about him, the sooner you will become strong once again. Please take the advice that everyone on this site is giving you and stay right away from pictures and/or contact with him. If he knows you're looking for him he will just destroy you once again, of that you can be sure.
I know you can heal, I know you can recover and I know you will be a much better person for this experience.
Now is the time to look after you. I wish you only the best,
RF