My first direct email after emails from OKCupid:
10/07/2013 11:34 pm
It was nice hearing from you on the site I really appreciate that so much, How is the weather out there and how is your day so far ? Hope all is well with you as we doing here too in Kabul. I had a great and busy long day but thank God it's over and am about to get some rest now, Please extends my greetings and regards to your family for me and will like to get to know you well better and see where life and future will lead us to and I also want you to know that I'm looking for a woman that I can love and cherished in good times and bad times, I have been hurt and heart broken so many times so I don't want that to happens to me anymore and I'm seeking for a woman that takes care of herself both physically and mentally. A level headed individual who is not a procrastinator, who enjoys life to the fullest and who loves to travel. A woman that respects herself enough to respect the one she loves and care for. I like a strong sense of being, of knowing where in life you want to be and whom you want to be with. A conscious person who is serious about having a monogamous relationship. An honest person who you can count on in times of needs, someone to laugh with someone to cry with, to share your hopes and dreams in good times and bad times. I am looking for a partner and a lover and best friend who I can share the most intimate dreams, A woman who is honest,faithful,trustworthy,loving,caring,loyal,humble,self confident and God fearing.A well rounded individual and a spiritual person, I'm very serious and determined man who's ready and willing to do anything for love and so to let you know tht I'm looking for a woman who is honest, hardworking, adventurous, romantic, Who's beautiful inside and out, humorous, friendly, affectionate, compassionate, A woman who will not judge me but love me unconditionally. I want her to take my breath away, I want butterflies in my stomach when I mention her name. I want her to look at me and I would be able to finish her thought and tell her you're my one and all, I want her to be affectionate no matter where we are.I want to dance in the rain with her and have God's showers of blessing on us and our relationship, I want to pray with her in the morning and in the night, I want a true heart, one that loves her children and would die for them and would love mine too and not to think mine are not hers. I need someone to hold me when I cry, when I have had a bad day I want her to sit and just listen and let me complain then with a touch and a kiss to make me forget what I was upset about, I want her to kiss me passionately and make me feel like real man and make me laugh and I will do same for her at all times and everywhere we're, I want to watch her sleep and wonder what she is dreaming about or what she's thinking about us and the family. I want her to know how I like my foods to be made. I want to cuddle and watch a movie. I guess you could say I am looking for Ms. Right. Not just "Ms Right Now". I'm looking for forever loving relationship that I can love and cherish at all times no matter what we know we love each other without fears and will be there for each other, I'm sick and tired of games and being alone and also to let you know that I was married to my ex and I never cheat or lie to her b'fore until she decide to go away with a divorce after cheating on me with 3 different men on our matrimonial bed and since it has been one heart break after the other and I don't want to go there anymore. I want to grow old with the woman I'm going to join union with now if God permit I find her, I want her to be my last relationship and forever marriage, I was raise in Beverly Hills,CA but move to Pentwater,MI almost 10years now. My plan as to when i retire is to settle down with that special woman am looking for and open my own auto mechanic shop where we will be spending the rest of your lives together. and Please I will like to ask you a few questions that are very Important to me in a relationship and they are down below , BE GOOD
1) Does age and distance matters to you in a relationship ?
2) Would you like to relocate someday if God permit you meet or find the man you are looking for ?
3) Would you quit or stop the dating site if you meet the right man you are looking for if God permit ?
4) Are you ready and willing to settle down if you meet the right man of your heart and life ?
5) Have ever you date or talk to any military man in person or on the dating site before ?
6) Would you like to devote time and commitment to relationship if you meet the right man ?
7) How long have you been on the dating site ?
8) Have you met anyone serious you are getting to know much better yet ?
9) What do you do for a living and how long now ?
10) Would you like to give it a chance and get to know me well and see where it goes ?
11) Do you b'lieve in online dating site and think people can meet online and develop feelings for each other and all in love ? Two of my best friends found their wives on the site and so is my sister, So I b'lieve it's possible
12) Would you let your past experience haunt your future ? Relationship wise I mean.
13) Do you have trust issue ?
14) If you and I are partners right now b'tween me and your friends and family, Who would you trust most ?
15) Do you think every man is the same ?
16) Are you the kind of woman tht listens to what friends and outsiders says about your relationship and partner ?
17) Would you date a man who have a child?
18) If God permit things workout b'tween us, Will you accept my son ?
19) Describe yourself in two words ?
20) Are you a jealous woman ?
21) Where did you grow up ?
22) What did you do after high school ?
23) Do you think your kids will accept another man in your life ?
24) Wht are your kids name and how old are they ?
Yours Sincerely.
Kevin.
I was contacted Oct. 04, 2013 by Sergeant Kevin Butt Harry from OKCupid.com under the username Walk_besideme1 and was requested to receive emails from
sergeant_butt@yahoo.com. Following that was the request to instant message under sergeant_butt. I received several pictures and the story that Kevin has been in the Army for 26 yrs and will be retiring within two months of our meeting online.He was currently stationed in Kabul, Afghanistan.
He was listed as living in Pentwater, MI. I adored his pictures and still enjoy them. Highest compliments to you Sir. Promises of marriage and buying two houses, one on the beach and the other near the mechanics shop he would open after retiring.
Request for items to be sent thru his commander's assistant using and email
highwavesinc@gmail.com to a Mr. Newton who would then in turn send me the address to use for mailing packages. A cell call to 315-307-2809 which was a Call Wave messaging tracked to New York was given to alert Mr. Newton of the email being sent.
Items requested were valued at approx $1000.00 which included an unlocked gsm Samsung Galaxy SIII, Calvin Klein woven cotton boxers, 4 bags Chips Ahoy cookies, 5 bags disposable razors, 1honey, Paco Rabanne 1 Million Eau de Toilette, 6.8 oz, 2 G Shock Watches, in red and white, 2 Equate Cocoa Butter Conditioning Body Lotion, 2 Old Spice Sweat Defense Swagger Deodorant, 3 big white towels, 2 Alpine Xtreme Bath Gels.
He is still emailing, IM and texting me. I am glad to find this site for information as to how to best handle this situation. I am very happy to learn that Gordon is alive, healthy and still serving our country with the honor and respect he is due. My heart is a little road-rashed but I am out no money, just a lot of sleep. Guess the wedding is off