45 yers old
Deployed to Africa
He contacted me on FacebookSeptember 4, 2013
You've got a wonderful and fascinating profile so I'm sending you a message and show my interest. We can overcome the great distance as distance should & does not come between two loving hearts but it does make it inconvenient. However I also believe " Where there is a will there is a way". Have been on this for less than 1week now and i'm in search of my Soul & Dream Mate,Lover,Wife and Life Companion, let me give you a brief introduction of me. My name is Brian White/Caucasian. I'm a soldier, I have a good sense of humor. I live in Gainesville florida(45yrs)would be 46 by october..I'm a widower been widowed for 5yrs now. I have just only 1 lovely son <Damien 10yrs>. After the sudden and devastating death of my wife,who was a wonderful,sweet and caring wife and mother. She was a teacher and she died by a auto Accident on her way back from her school..Have been single for the past 5 years, am a man with a strong heart,loving, caring, honest, compassionate,affectionate, i also believe in God.I like swimming, camping,fishing,reading &writing,tennis,Football,Basketball,Baseball,golfing,swimming etc.When i saw your profile on facebook i was really amazed and motivated and i wanna chat with you, to send you a message and show my interest..I would want us to continue this conversation further
Brian: Have you gone through the first message?
me:Yes. Did that while I was dryig my hair
Brian:Sounds good. What do you feel about it?
me: I have to get ready now, talk to you later
Brian:Get ready for what precious one? (Already I´m a precious one )
me: I have to go to the store, but I´ll be back here later
Brian: Hi. How you doing?
me: fine thanks, and you?
Brian:Am off duty for the day
me: Where are you?
Brian:Am in Africa. At the military camp
me: How long have you been there?
Brian: 7 weeks now. But have been in the military for Ten years now
me: How long will you stay in Africa?
Brian: As soon as my mission is accomplished here I would be back in the state
me: What is it you do there?
Brian: On a peace keeping mission
me: What kind of work do you do?
Brian: in the army I am a sergent in the US army
me: What does a sergeant do?
Brian: Right now in africa all we do is go on patrol. And we enforce peace. Me go after hoodlums and terrorist. We tract them down. So of us get killed during this process. It just take the grace of God to keep a soldier alive. (Well, my english might not be the best... but his? )
Brian: So what do you about my message I sent earlier
me: I was in a hurry then, I´ll have to read it again
Brian: Read it again
Brian: Have you gone through the message?
Brian: What do you think? Are we cool?
me: Think we have to get to know eachother better. Don´t you have any more pictures?
Brian: I have not really taken pictures since I got here. Don't worry I will try and get some of my pictures. Will send it to you. I can't snap when am on duty. And can't snap here at the military camp. And I must not be caught taking pictures.Don't worry I will send pictures to you. That should not be a problem (Now I am confused )
Brian: What's your occupation?
me: xxxxx xxxx
Brian: Sounds good. Wish I could be there with you now. Or what do you think? Wanna spend the rest of my life with you honey (Really? )
me: But you don´t know me that well yet
Brian: I'm getting to know you already. So tell me more I don't know
me: I have a deep serious side, but I love jokes and pranks.
Brian: Wow! Sounds good hun. You are funny hunny. In this life u are to focus well when doing something. That's a lesson.
Brian: U know what?
Brian: I love you so much
me: You are a bit crazy. You still don´t know me that well.I´m going to watch a program on TV now... be back here in 30 minutes
Brian: am crazy about you honey. Ok will be waiting patiently for you. Wait you are not telling me something because each time I mentioned the word love U always tell that "I still don't know you well". Tell me somethingSeptember 5
Brian: Good morning
me: Good morning! Sorry, I fell asleep watchin TV yesterday
Brian: Ok am just on a short break. Would be back on patrol very soon. You actually kept me waiting yesterday while chatting hun
Brian: Ok am not angry. We were discussing about something yesterday before you slept off
Brian: So tell me more
me: It takes time to getting to know a person
Brian: I know that. It all start from a point. Let's take it slow and steady. Love am going back on patrolSeptember 9
Brian: Hunny I have something in mind that I'll love to discuss with you (What? Already? )
Brian: You know hunny its been a while we have been chatting on here but I will love us to start talking on phone
I will love to listen to your beautiful voice hunny (It´s been a while? Really? Yeah, Wednesday - Monday it´s a very long time
Brian: I love and miss you so much But there is a little problem (Oh, no who could´ve guessed? )
Brian: I can't afford my communication bills. Due to the fact that I am currently deployed and I don't have access to my bank account. I can only have control over my money when I get back to the states. This is part of the rules and regulations in the US military and also endorsed by the US president. So I was thinking if you could come up with some little fund for me just to settle my communication bill. So we can start talking to each other on phone (Yeah right )
me: okay? but what kind of money would that be? how much? and how?
Brian: Back in the next 2mins. Wanna use the toilet.
Brian: Am back. The money would be in Euro. And it is just 500 Euro. And you are going to send it via western union
Brian: Okay hunny. So will you do that for me tomorrow so that we can start talking on phone as from tomorrow.?
me: I can´t go to the bank tomorrow
Brian: So when will you go to the bank. And why can't you go tomorrow hunny.?
me: I have a meeting
Brian: Okay hunny I understand and believe you. That means I'm going to wait till next tomorrow love (Don´t hold your breath )
me: But we could have video call right here
Brian: No hunny not now
Brian: But am sure of us talking one phone. But I will work towards that. Honey cam is really not allowed here. Only on critical and important issues might be allowed
me: sounds like a prison (At least I wish you were in one )
Brian: Its really not like a prison. Its just the definition of discipline. Its the US military law. Its not my fault. But don't worry hunny I will work on it. But after the communication bill is fixed by next tomorrow I will personally start work on how we will do that okay. Its really frustrating as well and it hurt me that I can't see my love on cam but never the less all hope is not lost ok
me: but if it´s against the law, you can´t do anything about it
Brian: I will try to find a way out to please you just because I love and care for you so much. I hope I don't get caught hunny
me: Don´t break the law
Brian: Okay hunny if you say so then I will not. That's a promise from me to you okay. (Yeah, I´m sure you would do anything to avoyd showing your ugly face )
Brian: So if I may ask what time next tomorrow will you send the money via western union
me: I don´t know... and.... send it where?
Brian: So that I can inform my commander because he will the one to receive the money on my behalf. Okay hunny should I send the info to which you will send the money to via western union now.?
Brian: Name: Tom Dalas.
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Did you get the info hunny.?
me: yes I see it
Brian: Okay sounds good hunny. So by next tomorrow morning you will send the money right.?
me: why are you naging about it? It´s not like you´re going anywhere or have a train to cach. I´ll be here and you´re gonna be there for a while... what´s the hurry?
Brian: Because I am just so eager to listen to my love's voice. I just can't wait hunny. I love and miss you so much
Its something I can't control. I know and you are right. But I know we will be together very soon. And I just want to listen to your voice. Cus I Love you so much
me: But you´re going to be there for a while
Brian: Hunny you know what I love saying is...“You've gotta dance like there's nobody watching, Love like you'll never be hurt, Sing like there's nobody listening, And live like it's heaven on earth.” I LOVE you so much
me: I have to go now
Brian: Okay hunny. I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where. I love you simply, without problems or pride: I love you in this way because I do not know any other way of loving but this, in which there is no I or you, so intimate that your hand upon my chest is my hand, so intimate that when I fall asleep your eyes close.September 11
Brian: Hello hunny Good Morning and how was your night rest...I really miss you so much and I could not sleep so well because we could not chat for a very long time yesterday. I hope you are good and great condition and I hope to read from you soon enough...I love you so much with all I have got. Do have a great day ahead.
Brian: Hunny. How are you doing?
me: I´m on the phone
Brian: Okay. Lemme know when you are through. Hunny I am still here waiting for you...what is keeping you so long
me: I have some problems and need to take care of some phone calls
Brian: Are you still on phone hunny? Are you there?
me: yes I´m here
Brian: Okay good to have you back. How are you doing now hunny?
me: I have some serious problems and I need to solve them
Brian: Okay. Hunny concerning the money I told you about I have told my commander so he wants to know the exact date which you are going to send it hunny. So it won't look like am deceiving him. So I wanna know when you are sending it so I will let him(My commander) know as soon as possible hunny (Yeah, I´m sure he wants to know )
me: Why would he care about it? It´s not like it´s in his interest that you have acces to the phone
Brian: He's the commander hunny. As a soldier in the US army I have to be loyal to my commander
me: You have to understand that it´s far more important that I take care of my problems otherwise I will lose a lot of money.
Brian: Yeah I understand hunny.
me: You and me speaking on the phone has to be a lower priority, at the moment
Brian: Hunny what's gonna happen now?
me: If you really need that money right now, I will drop my own problems and send you the money you need...
Brian: Okay hunny...sounds good. I love you so much for that. So if I may ask in how many minuet will you send the money so that it can be picked up today
me: Are you serious?
Brian: Yeah am serious hunny
me: Exact how
stupid do you think I am? You retarded SOB get the hell out of my life