well... to me it seems the site is not THAT bad. After you posted, I opened 2 standard baiting profiles that I use on all other sites, just to check them out: one of a bbw middleaged American woman and of an average looking American guy in his 40s: not ugly, not attractive, just average joe.
In 10 days my female profile got 5 messages.
3 were from Nigerian scammers
2 were from real American bbw-lovers.
1 scammer was removed the next day
2 are still there.
My male profile got only 1 message from a vlad with modeling pics. That's it. But it gets a LOT of flowers from real cougars (real ladies in their 40s and 50s). Already got 6.
This is not THAT bad. Other sites are much worse. The same profiles on DMF, 4ppl, singlesburg, easyflirt are showered with all kind of scamsters, I get 2-3 messages per day, ALL from lads, vlads, 419ers, no real people at all.
If there are female mugus there, they are apparently not contacting men first. Waiting for men to contact them.
Just trying to be fair.