Hundreds of U. S. men are being tricked with one “Dating Site”. Day after day, the numbers of tricked men increase, notwithstanding the warning of other men who know what is really happening in that “Dating Site”. This page I am constructing is meant to be a defense against such trick. It will be useful if you contribute with warning your friends about the existence of that scam. If we make this warning to snowball, then we will succeed. The more persons you warn about that cheat, the better.
The “Dating Sites” in mention is http:/ /
www.russianlovematch.com/ and http:/ /
www.hotrussianbrides.com, which have alliances with some marriage agencies, mainly in Ukraine, but also in Colombia, Peru, Argentina and other Latin countries. These agencies engage women, who are as much in want of one job as in want of a husband, and translators, to partake in this trick. The translator (male or female) is confided the task of idling men with a chat of coquetry while the young woman is supposed only to smile at the video cam. The more time the tricked men idle in chat, the better. The more men the translator idles concurrently, the better. Both women and translators get a commission for it. The amount of this commission is unknown, but, for sure, risible, and this is maybe the worst. I worked in the agency of Medellin, Colombia, for almost one year, and I can state that girls worked without a covenant with their managers about the commission. They simply get one pay for chat, which is rather capricious or arbitrary, and one commission for gifts. To let you know how risible this pay is, I will mention the case of the girl with whom I was working for these last six months (from January to June of 2009). Her nickname is Sandgom. The Sandgom’s average is about 10 men daily. Every message in chat cost less than one dollar. The average of messages every man enter is about 100 a chat, which may amount to about 80 dollars. So, ten men chatting with us might have become a 800 dollars gain for the owner (or owners) of the “Dating Site” every day. But how much for Sandgom? As a daily average, she uses to get only 15 dollars.
As for the gifts, when one man orders flowers for one girl, the girl do not get the flowers but one little commission for them (about 10%). I can say the same about the other gifts, as candies, English lessons, and jewellery.
Of course, there are many suits against the “Dating Site”. How are they preventing themselves to get convicted? One of their stratagems is to make girls to swear in one video that they are in their respective agencies, not for money nor for gifts, but for their wanting one husband, which is wholly false, except for some little women.
We, translators, are also tasked with writing such letters as this ones you will read now, which are designed to cajole men in one pretended amatory relation.
We can conform one love to the one which we have idealized through readings of dreamy romances, romantic films or merely our fantasies. I confess myself to be one woman with many fantasies. I have read that "The true freeman is he who conforms himself to his reason". As for myself, I think we have certain feelings which we can not reason about. Sometimes we try to reason why we behave ourselves this way or that way. There is no precise reply, but colours in our sensations: One blue as background, one orange in the letters comprise your name.
My meaning is not to reason you into an error. On the contrary, I want you to comprehend how delightful is to have met each other as one kind of discovery of new worlds. I can now fantasy much better, with different colours, and more figures. I feel able to write, to compose and to sing under the delight of being connected with these expectations.
What is preferable, one conformity of each to other, where we are not able to learn by dialogue, as one pair of eyes, impossible to face each other, or one light difference, by means of which we are in ability of concerting an harmony? In the field of love, are you a conformist to some determined ways of making court to one woman, or do you invent news ways of loving? I am sure that is the last one. I think we have differences, but we linger in some of our qualities, which are in the confines of wellbeing.
You are like one very enjoyable sweet fruit, which one eats every time, and never it is coiling. Some remembrances are good, but some anticipations are much better. When heaven betokens rain, one gets ready to enjoy the evening in the best position, in the best place of the home. When I communicate with you, your words betoken the best of one man, it is not only his benevolence, but also his intelligence, in one mixture with male powers.
Do you know what is TO VERB one noun? It is to use it as one verb. In this case, If I verb your noun Lorenzo, I could use it to denote one quality of man able to fly with me during our chats. When I mention the verb TO FLY, I mean your exclusivity of pleasing me with words, which can take me into dreamy worlds. When we communicate, we feel our respective arts. We are not the fantasy of one mysterious person sitting at one desk. We are real, we are one sensation started with one simple HELLO and continued with the best of our wishes. This feeling will have no end, as long as we have our will of being together. We are lighting one candle in one room where there was nothing but darkness. Every chat with you is one candle. We are seeing now our room decorated, very well decorated. Nobody else can have such room as we have.
Your confessed feelings about ourselves confirm what your eyes had approved of and they confirm me in this worthy situation of my being your female part. Your statements confirm me in the confidence that I have found my male part, the one that will act as one cogwheel able to move this Great machine of love. Our senses are engaged in the search of GOOD, but our mind is one bird with EAGLE EYE able to distinguish good and bad persons. No doubt about your ability to love, no question about your integrity. Do you know what is PHISIONOMIZE? It is one art by which you can deduce the quality of one persons for his (her) look. Our eyes are one kind of SCANNER, when they look at somebody, they hardly could be wrong. I am not wrong about you. I see you, not only in the screen of one computer, but also in my dreams, in the cheese cake, in the eyes of my children, in the drops of rain, in the shadows of sun, in the scent of best mall.
Do not stop PHISIONOMIZing, we are not wrong, the best of ourselves is still to come through other senses than eyes.
I want to become, not only the recipient of love, but also the conferrer. I am very pleased to remember you. It is said that the best conditioner of love is one session of face to face with the beloved. Love is conditional on nothing but on one mutual correspondence. I feel well loved by you and this makes me so happy. I will become one necessary part to your life, as air, as food, as music, as laugh, as water, as sun. Let me become such thing.
We will care for our feelings, as flowers in one garden, as plants in one wood, as colours in one notebook, as lines in one verse, as violins in one symphony. Love me as I love you, and you will feel the force of our benevolence.
The future is now. We are present, with the experience of past as one worthy value. We can say that our Verbs are commuters in one almost mysterious process. Every day is one means to learn much more about our abilities. The past tense of verb SEARCH, the present tense of the verb FIND and the future one of the verb LOVE, in their respective conjugation, this is, I SEARCHED, I FIND YOU and I WILL LOVE YOU, are an evidence that we are no accident in this world out of control. The recurrence of our good feelings are extensions of one congeniality discovered by us. We are an alliance, we are one fellowship. We talk congenially, congenitally united by something we can not touch but we can feel.
Much before my becoming one woman, before the conglobation of my breast and before the development of my reason, nobody was able to guess what would happened in one time as ours.
