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The Healing Process

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Re: The Healing Process

Postby zetaarnold » Mon Mar 08, 2010 10:42 pm

We all have scars in our lives, some smaller than others. This is one of those ugly, big ones that you don't even want anyone to see.
Hello Lastchance:
You are right: it is a big and ugly scar... and takes a lot of time to feel better... the process is low and hard... I realized I was scammed about eight months ago and even though I am concious that the man in the photo it is not "real", sometimes I remember my scammer, that man in whom I trusted and fell. You will see the light at the end, believe me. Stay strong and celebrate your life.
"Something is rotten in the state of Denmark..." Shakespeare

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Re: The Healing Process

Postby Tropical Breeze » Tue Mar 09, 2010 1:00 am

Thank you Zetaarnold, I long for that day when I don't feel like I am completely broken inside.

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Re: The Healing Process

Postby Arabian Nights » Tue Mar 09, 2010 2:48 am

Hello Lastchance :)

That day will come when you will be alright :)

May I make a suggestion as to assist you in your recovery............ :)
Ask the Mods to change your user name to something more positive ;)

Maintian your day to day life
getting up early
open your blinds
make your bed
attend to your normal hygiene
go out for walk and enjoy the the small things, smell the roses
Visit friends and family have a coffee, catch a movie, go shopping
catch a movie and have a box of tissues and let it out
come and read on here often
we are here to walk with you and stand by you when you feeling feeble

welcome and thankyou for sharing you are doing well :applause: :applause:
Have you GOOGLED today!
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Re: The Healing Process

Postby arnie » Tue Mar 09, 2010 3:01 am

hi, i`m new here. don`t know where to start my story. just had realized i was scam using a pics of james bill 2 days ago.anyway,thanks for all the informations i just read it from your sight...arnie

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Re: The Healing Process

Postby Pinky » Tue Mar 09, 2010 5:14 am

hi, i`m new here. don`t know where to start my story. just had realized i was scam using a pics of james bill 2 days ago.anyway,thanks for all the informations i just read it from your sight...arnie
You're not alone here. James Bill's pictures have been the most used of all. He's a favorite amongst the scammers. Post what information you have, in the James Bill thread. Chances are your scammer is scamming others too, so if they google for the scammer's email address, we hope they'll find your posting and not lose money.
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Re: The Healing Process

Postby arnie » Tue Mar 09, 2010 5:45 am

thanks for the immediate reply, i`m still here sitting in front of my computer. can`t think of anything to say, but , thank you very much...arnie

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Re: The Healing Process

Postby Arabian Nights » Tue Mar 09, 2010 6:56 am

Welcome arnie :)
don`t know where to start my story
:applause: :applause: you have already started, this is often the hardest step to take, the rest will come and with that you will gain your freedom and power back
can`t think of anything to say
Just start at the beginning, we are here to support you thru this process as you may already have seen many of us have walked in your shoes and you will be understood and regarded well

so where to start:?
site where you met
his name he used
email he used
emails he sent you
Headers and IPs from those emails
Phone numbers
Addresses he gave you
Any other details he gave you

I am sorry to say the story of him being without wife and the only son of parents who are deceased with one child and he now has to be in Africa for business is a basis of all the story's you will read, with some slight variations.
So post everything you have up
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Re: The Healing Process

Postby arnie » Tue Mar 09, 2010 8:03 am

thank you , thank you so much for all the support, i`m residing here in tokyo thats why my english is not so good but let me gather all the detail first and i`ll send them tonight. i have lots of things to say but nothing came out from my mind.just the word "thank you so much" i really meant it. i have nobody to tell this stories just here within this sight. thank you so much i really appriciate your support...arnie

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Re: The Healing Process

Postby Arabian Nights » Tue Mar 09, 2010 11:14 am

Dear arnie
First
Start a New Post .....if not already posted on RS
with name and email address in header

Second
Post up his image

the rest can be added when you have it all together :)

Check this out too
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Live show every Saturday, 10 PM GMT / 6 PM EST - Also download all previous shows ("Download"-button under "On Demand Episodes")

No registration or anything necessary to listen. If you wish to join the live chat during show, you need to have an account there, but not for pure listening. - Edited in by F.

As soon as a live show starts and you are on the above link, press "PLAY/CHAT".
It may also help, it is in English .
We do have many different cultures here and many varied languages as well as those who are learning to speak english :)
Be well
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Re: The Healing Process

Postby arnie » Tue Mar 09, 2010 2:41 pm

dear arabian nights,
first i would like to thank you for being here for me.i had already posted some of the details you had asked earlier today. but still i have some more infos. regarding the banks remittances that i used to send money for him and also the name of the person which i had sent from the money gram. but i want to sent it to you privately , i can send it to you through my yahoo email. just tell me what to do. sorry, for my mail sound terrible.
thank you...arnie

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Re: The Healing Process

Postby Pinky » Tue Mar 09, 2010 5:11 pm

Arnie, we do have some members here who are Japanese. You might be more comfortable in your own language. I think you should make a post in the general section asking for someone who speaks and writes Japanese more comfortably, to send you a private message.
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Re: The Healing Process

Postby arnie » Wed Mar 10, 2010 1:32 pm

hi to all,
its me arnie again,
the guy just called me 15 mins ago
and i just pretend that i did`nt know anything
he then told me that he now arrieved in UK
and just having his check up.
then he`ll call again?
what should i do?
if any body had read this ...
please advice me what shall i do?...arnie

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Re: The Healing Process

Postby The Wild Geese » Wed Mar 10, 2010 1:44 pm

Hello Arnie,
Don't call him. Let him call you. Let him pay for his calls. Then just ask him to send you an email, then you will be able to know he is not really in UK through the originating IP of his letter. KL or Nigeria? Then you know he is just one of these biggest liars on earth. Take care!
Nothing wrong of being an Engr. as long as you are real. :-)

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Re: The Healing Process

Postby Arabian Nights » Wed Mar 10, 2010 2:13 pm

Dear Arnie
Never call him, let him call you every time
Never send $$$$$$$
Ignore some of his phone calls and answer if you want or when you want
You take control :D
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Re: The Healing Process

Postby arnie » Thu Mar 11, 2010 5:28 am

its me again, arnie
i just got his IP number:74.6.228.92
location: sunnyvale CA UNITED STATES
listed black list at: spam.dnsbl.sords.net
thank you very much for being there for me (Arabian Nights, The wild geese, and Pinky) just a moment of your time is all i need. i really appriciate your concern not only to me but to those who had been abuse by them.hope all my infos would help a lot...arnie

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